So I recently have come to believe that my husband has been cheating on me. I don't have any proof, but I just have a number of coincidences that all lead to it being a certain person, plus some crying, vomiting, and mental breakdown of my husband when I accused him of it. Despite this behavior on his part he still vehemently denies everything, bought me a few presents, and put himself in counseling.
However I feel I can't go on like this, not knowing the truth for certain, it is all eating away at me. My question is, should I anonymously contact this girl, and confront her with what I believe is going on, and tell her to stay away from my family? Because from some cryptic messages she posts on social media, it appears she is offering him love and an open door to come back whenever he wants. Or could this all somehow backfire against me? If I contact her anonymously, and it is all untrue, then everything should just fall flat, right? But if it is true, what is the worst that could happen?
I'm having trouble reasoning this and going with my intuition because every time I am ready to hit send on an anonymous email to her, I am filled with anxiety, and it is hard for me to figure if this is anxiety over this being a bad idea, or just the social anxiety of standing up for myself and reaching out to this stranger with a huge bombshell.
I would appreciate any advice you guys could give me, and I would also welcome any Christian views on what I am contemplating doing, because I strongly want to do what's right.
However I feel I can't go on like this, not knowing the truth for certain, it is all eating away at me. My question is, should I anonymously contact this girl, and confront her with what I believe is going on, and tell her to stay away from my family? Because from some cryptic messages she posts on social media, it appears she is offering him love and an open door to come back whenever he wants. Or could this all somehow backfire against me? If I contact her anonymously, and it is all untrue, then everything should just fall flat, right? But if it is true, what is the worst that could happen?
I'm having trouble reasoning this and going with my intuition because every time I am ready to hit send on an anonymous email to her, I am filled with anxiety, and it is hard for me to figure if this is anxiety over this being a bad idea, or just the social anxiety of standing up for myself and reaching out to this stranger with a huge bombshell.
I would appreciate any advice you guys could give me, and I would also welcome any Christian views on what I am contemplating doing, because I strongly want to do what's right.