Camden
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This has been a long term thing since I was a kid. I always worried about having a friend(s) over to my place. I worried about them not liking my toys, video games, back yard, etc. Even though I was young, I still remember wanting to be the “perfect host” for my friend while they visited. I worried so much leading up to their visit, during the visit, and felt relieved when they finally went home.
Today, I still have trouble with this situation. Even as an adult I’m self conscious and driven to be the “perfect host.” I’m THINKING about inviting my friends over to my family’s place on the lake this weekend. I have a bad feeling in my gut because of several factors:
1 Bad weather forecasted Saturday for my area. If there are thunderstorms, we definitely can’t go on the water and our whole visit will be undermined.
2 Our boat dock is a total trainwreck and needs a deep cleaning after the winter.
3 Some of my family will be in a wedding back in Milwaukee and I’m afraid of potentially dealing with a crisis and being unable to reach them.
4 I might have to be responsible for my friends’ dog for a short time this weekend. It bothers me to have animals in my house or car.
With all these issues swirling around my mind, I think it would be best for my sake to take a rain check (pun intended) on inviting my friends to the lake this time. As horrible as it sounds, it’s just an unnecessary source of stress for me.
Today, I still have trouble with this situation. Even as an adult I’m self conscious and driven to be the “perfect host.” I’m THINKING about inviting my friends over to my family’s place on the lake this weekend. I have a bad feeling in my gut because of several factors:
1 Bad weather forecasted Saturday for my area. If there are thunderstorms, we definitely can’t go on the water and our whole visit will be undermined.
2 Our boat dock is a total trainwreck and needs a deep cleaning after the winter.
3 Some of my family will be in a wedding back in Milwaukee and I’m afraid of potentially dealing with a crisis and being unable to reach them.
4 I might have to be responsible for my friends’ dog for a short time this weekend. It bothers me to have animals in my house or car.
With all these issues swirling around my mind, I think it would be best for my sake to take a rain check (pun intended) on inviting my friends to the lake this time. As horrible as it sounds, it’s just an unnecessary source of stress for me.