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May 17, 2020
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this is my first time here I am very stressed, I cant sleep, I got work in 2 hours. my gf is depressed and it stressing me out cause I cant be there for her. we are several states away I got call from her crying and I wasn't awake and she said im never there for her. Ive tried calling back a lot and no answer. idk if I can do this anymore I like her a lot but the distance is killing me I cant be there for her I never seem to make her happy. im stressed cause I haven't heard from her I just don't know what to do my anxiety Is off the chains right now I cant even sit still


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Apr 14, 2019
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Long distance relationships are very hard. Made even harder now with the virus going around. Simple fact is it is impossible to give her what she wants. Which is most probably a person there with her to be able to listen to her and hold her. Very hard to keep such a relationship up if one person is not exactly happy about how things are going. Have to think of your own health as well. So ask yourself is it worth going on with? Probably won't get to see her for a long time. Might mean a lot of phone calls. This seems to be bringing you down. Making your anxiety worse. If it was me I would do what was best for myself and my own health.
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