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Scared of reincarnation supernatural all thst stuff

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I should say I used to read about things such as twin flames soulmates I always wanted to believe I have a special guy meant for just me I always wanted a real love not the fake all about looks relationship I see all around me. I wanted to believe in good things but at same time I read that if this stuff is real then it’s based on having several lives and reincarnation and that you have karma debt from other lives this scares crap out of me I don’t want to believe any of that.

It also makes you think everything you see hear numbers mean something and as someone having anxiety this makes my anxiety worse I don’t want to believe any of that. I guess I’m depressed about two things that twin flames don’t exist but even more I’m worried that everything we see is a sign and if we have several lives and you suffer for mistakes in past lives in this life scares crap out of me. Please give advice tell me the scary stuff ain’t real giving me anxiety
 

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Well, which one do you truly believe? That's ultimately up to you. If one makes more sense than the other, well, that's probably what you want to believe. I personally don't believe in anything supernatural, paranormal, higher power, "signs", reincarnation, etc. Life is life, and that's it.

As a former follower of a Christianity-like belief system, I can say that, for me, getting away from all that stuff actually helped reduce my overall anxiety. I'm no longer anxious about "afterlife", and whether or not I'm pleasing a higher power. I'm no longer thinking about an afterlife. Instead, I'm focused on making this life count, because it's all I have.

Maybe one of the paths you're conflicted about will do the same for you. I have no personal beef with spiritual/religious lifestyles, it just isn't for me. That's something we all must decide at some point in life.
 

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This is an area I love. In life we make our own luck. It is not based on anything we done in another life. When you meet another person, you have 2 choices. You can be either nice to them or nasty to them. Is only logical that if you are nice to them, they will just as nice back to you. If you are mean, they will be mean. No karma involved at all. Same if you surround yourself with negative people, you will become negative too in no time at all. Nothing got to with karma at all. Just life.

All this stuff about numbers meaning anything is a load of BS. People simply made all that rubbish up a few hundred years back to impress kings and queens. Much like they did with Astrology too. Nobody can look at the stars in the sky and tell you anything about your life. It is all just rubbish. I wouldn't even waste my time with such crap.

You can decide on what kind of lifestyle you live. It is a choice. F all got to do with karma from another lifetime.
 
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This is an area I love. In life we make our own luck. It is not based on anything we done in another life. When you meet another person, you have 2 choices. You can be either nice to them or nasty to them. Is own logical that if you are nice to them, they will just as nice back to you. If you are mean, they will be mean. No karma involved at all. Same if you surround yourself with negative people, you will become negative too in no time at all. Nothing got to with karma at all. Just life.

All this stuff about numbers meaning anything is a load of BS. People simply made all that rubbish up a few hundred years back to impress kings and queens. Much like they did with Astrology too. Nobody can look at the stars in the sky and tell you anything about your life. It is all just rubbish. I wouldn't even waste my time with such crap.

You can decide on what kind of lifestyle you live. It is a choice. F all got to do with karma from another lifetime.
Agreed 100%, I was just trying to not sound as harsh. Haha.
 

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Known your luck you will be reincarnated as yourself all over again. :p
 

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I personally don’t like the thought of religious stuff it’s always scary it makes you feel you have be someone who never does anything wrong or it’s a sin not a fun way to live. I do though would like to be believe in an afterlife though. I don’t like the thought of reincarnation. I don’t believe how many people really believe in karma and reincarnation they act like it’s a fact and that people who suffer deserve it and it’s horrible to think anyone would think it. I don’t want to believe it but what if it’s true then what
I also really want to believe in a real love but at same time idk if I want to believe in twin flames it doesn’t sound realistic but the thought of a true love always was something I’m interested in
 

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Everything in life is a choice. That includes religion. Some are into religion. Some are not. Choices all round. True love? It can happen if the right person comes along. But you might have to endure false love a few times before you find that true love. Some people might say they love you. It might seem all sweet and romantic. Then it falls apart. To me that is false love. People simply using the word Love because they feel they have to. Others would use the word Love just to get into your pants. So you might have a few false starts. Be let down by your expectations of love a number of times before the right person does come along. A person who will simply love you for who you are. They are not trying to gain anything by using the word Love. They just want to be loved back. It can happen. Might not be exactly like you see in a romance book. But close enough. As close as you will get in the real world.,
 

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Here’s some of crazy stuff I seen that was bothering gone tell me what you think https://www.futurepointindia.com/article/en/health-and-numerology-8845


prarabdha karma is something which I read that scares me it says you cannot change that if it’s true and you have to suffer for mistakes you made in previous life and disease stuff I don’t why anyone would want to believe this stuff
 

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More rubbish and not worth the time of the day. People who belong to a certain faith may want to believe all that crap. But not me. What you do in this life is all that matters This is the life you are living. If you want to worry about anything, worry about this life. Don't mind all that BS.
 

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More rubbish and not worth the time of the day. People who belong to a certain faith may want to believe all that crap. But not me. What you do in this life is all that matters This is the life you are living. If you want to worry about anything, worry about this life. Don't mind all that BS.
Yep, I agree completely.

As for karma, I do believe in it, but not in the context of a "past life". But if you're a shitty person, shitty things will inevitably happen to you. There's no divine intervention (as far as I'm concerned); it's a simple law of nature. That doesn't mean you're a bad person if bad things happen to you, because anyone and everyone falls on hard times. But the more bad you do, the more bad you will experience (basically repercussions for your actions). Conversely, if you lead an honest, respectful and overall healthy lifestyle, you're more likely to succeed (e.g. being honest and having integrity will naturally take you places).
 

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I don’t want to believe it but sometimes I worry it is. I know I try to be a good human being but no one is innocent all of the time and I don’t think a person should have to suffer for things. I don’t think it makes any sense for those who believe to think it’s normal that someone should suffer for what in their belief in another life doesn’t in any way make sense you right
 

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We can't control everything. If it's real, it's real - we can't do anything about that. But will we ever know? IMO no, never. Just make the best of life, be the best human you can be, don't fall in with the garbage humans out there, and enjoy your time here.
 

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If you were to mention Karma for this life I would believe. You rob something, person catches you and gives you a few punches. To me that is Karma. I do not believe if you done something bad 10 years ago and today you are feeling bad, that the two are connected at all. Anybody who even suggests that is talking rubbish. Nobody is perfect in life. But the rules of Karma we all should be suffering. That is not what happens. I also know it can be part of a belief system in some countries. Thus it would mean more to people in those countries. Were it is not such a big thing here in Ireland. We won't believe in it as much.
 

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Many of the people I seen who believe it believe we reincarnate every time to deal wirh karma from previous life which I find scary if that true I don’t want to believe it. They were acting like if anything goes wrong it’s karma end I don’t who would want to live her way. That’s not fun way to live thinkin that way
 

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Have heard this all before. Other people would tell you that you can come back as a rock or a bird. It does not have to be human. My question is, who do we believe? They all might believe in many lives. But each has a different twist on it. Some thing the body is just a vessel for the soul. We are here to learn. Then we die and are reborn. Then we live another life and we learn even more from our second life. Does that not sound a bit better than been punished for what you might have done in a past life? You look at the many tribes of Indians in the US. To them there is life in everything. Be it a tree. A stream. A mountain. A bird. They are all life. So should be treated as such. Because the tree could be an ancestor reborn. As could the bird in the sky. Not a punishment. Just life. So it depends who you ask about these things. Much like the bible, you will hear of punishment. But love should also be there too. You anxiety is not a punishment for anything you done in a past life. It simply might be something you have to learn from in this life.
 

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If anything I would believe that god wouldn’t want people to suffer for stuff they regret doing in life I was was told god is forgiving as went to religion and stuff never did I hear any of this scary stuff till I seen people post reincarnation. I think it sounds wrong the think having to suffer for mistakes makes no sense doesn’t go with what I’ve known make sense right
 

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There you have your answer. God always forgives. He is a God of love. He would never make you suffer.
 

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Right also forgot to mention the belief they have saying that the family your giving and the relationship you have eith then is sort of past life and I don’t have good relationship with my father I’ve always been afraid of him and anxiety sometimes I worry like if I hit my hand that it’s me being punished but know like we’ve stated god that we know of wouldn’t do that
 

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I read last year when I was worrying about numerology that number in your name and chart tell you about you health and says the ages of when it could happen and I remember freaking out about it one of number was age I’m gonna be I two years into terrified of that gonna worry two more years
 

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if you are not into that stuff, why believe it at all? I thought you were into God? if you are into God, simply stick to the word of God. Then you won't have any problems with any of this nonsense.
 
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