Howlingvapor
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I’m out of school now, taking a semester off to find another job and make enough money to move away to finish my degree at a university in another town. I’ll be honest though that’s just the plan for now, I really don’t know what I’m doing anymore. I have no drive anymore. I was doing stand up for a bit and I was actually pretty good at it, but every time open mic night comes up now I make excuses as to why I can’t go. I need a creative outlet to feel satisfied, but I don’t have the drive to put myself out there sometimes. I have so many directions I could go, but not enough motivation to pursue any of them. I have my current job to give me some kind of structure, but that’s it and it pays so little my dad doesn’t even see it as a real job. I need to start growing up and applying for jobs and be more ambitious, but I have no motivation to do so. I feel lazy and worthless because of that, which only makes me feel more self conscious and less motivated to put myself out there. I honestly don’t know what to do. I’ve thought about doing some comedy stuff on YouTube so that maybe I’ll have enough consistency and passion in my life to go out and do the things I need to do, but I’m afraid it’s just another way for me to waste time on something that doesn’t matter like my last channel was, a false sense of accomplishment. I’m afraid of failure so I don’t try, I’m afraid of humiliation so I don’t take chances, and I’m afraid of getting comfortable and never moving on in my life so I’m always tense. I feel uncomfortable just existing sometimes. School made me feel at least like I had something on a regular basis that mattered, but now all I have is a dead end job that I get 10 hours a week from if I’m lucky. I’m 21 years old and I feel like a loser, no I am a loser. There’s no excuse for it. I’m basically one or two instances of bad luck away from losing everything at all times and it terrifies me. I literally had a panic attack the other day when the target manager said he wanted to talk to me after my projects were done. I thought he was going to fire me even though I don’t even technically work for target and he doesn’t have the power to do that. It ended up being nothing! I just forgot to put something away that I should have, but I was so paranoid about losing the one thing that gives me any sense of worth or purpose that the mere thought of it was enough to have me shaking during my entire project. I just don’t know what to do or how to motivate myself to do it. I just don’t have enough confidence in myself to strive for better at this point. I’m really scared and I try to push those fears down, but I just can’t anymore.
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