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I want to ask out a girl but, I'm just too freaken nervous


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Nov 20, 2022
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So I think I have a crush on someone but, for people I don't I just get really nervous and, I don't know what to say sometimes.
So do you guys have any, advice when it comes to asking someone out while I have some big anxiety? What got you guys to actually ask out the person?


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Apr 14, 2019
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Unless you want to mention your anxiety to her, which I am guessing you don't want to do, maybe start out small. A walk and a talk. Try and get yourself relaxed around her. See there is no danger. No reason to get anxious. You might have a film you like that is showing in the cinema. That could be the next step. Or even to a cafe for a cup of something and a bite to eat. Whichever you feel more relaxed doing. If you feel you can trust her enough after a few dates, slowly bring up things about yourself. if she is a nice personm she will be understanding. Then you can take it from there.