God only knows how to do that I think, as I'm really bad for it. In one sense I am glad that I am the kind of person that cares what people think because it means that it makes me behave with respect. Both for myself and others. How I get over it is to think that if someone doesn't like me then that is tough on them. It kinda helps but it takes a lot of working on. I reckon that a great majority of mental issues is brought about by caring what others think of us. I'm agoraphobic. I can't stand people seeing me, looking at me, or having interaction. Why? I think because I'm scared what they may think of me and do to me. I know this can make you feel worried and anxious, but consider that you are the better person because you care. Then try to change your thoughts when it comes to mind.
You don't. As human beings .... we are programmed to want to belong and have that validation from others. Lord I wish that I could just be myself and not care and if I ever learn how to love myself and not care what others think. .. I will certainly let you know
