Grace360
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How do adults make friends?
I've been trying desperately to make friends forever.. to no avail. It's always something, its not like I don't try. I try to make friends with someone I've known since middle school.. they have literally a dozen or so friends now. Never tells me if they're hanging out. Never really invites me places. Met someone through her.. also too busy to hang out with me. So I don't consider them friends. Never really had a friend group in school because whenever I asked to hang out, even on weekends, they were "busy". Code word for bs.
I ask adults because I'm in online school now, not a physical location. So I don't have the clutch of school anymore. I just don't know what to do. I've cried about this multiple times. I just try and try and try and it seems like it's all for nothing. Is there any place I should go? What I should do? Maybe an app to try out?
I just need any advice. And yes, to me a friend is someone who can make time to spend with me,because they can do so to their other friends.
I've been trying desperately to make friends forever.. to no avail. It's always something, its not like I don't try. I try to make friends with someone I've known since middle school.. they have literally a dozen or so friends now. Never tells me if they're hanging out. Never really invites me places. Met someone through her.. also too busy to hang out with me. So I don't consider them friends. Never really had a friend group in school because whenever I asked to hang out, even on weekends, they were "busy". Code word for bs.
I ask adults because I'm in online school now, not a physical location. So I don't have the clutch of school anymore. I just don't know what to do. I've cried about this multiple times. I just try and try and try and it seems like it's all for nothing. Is there any place I should go? What I should do? Maybe an app to try out?
I just need any advice. And yes, to me a friend is someone who can make time to spend with me,because they can do so to their other friends.