Monica1112
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I hope this is ok to ask here. I have recently started dating someone and although he has not outright told me he is dealing with anxiety, he has eluded to it. He experienced a traumatic event a few months back and I know he is struggling to overcome it. I really like him and just want to support him without forcing him to talk about it when he clearly doesn’t want to. He sometimes cancels plans last minute and it’s hard to not take it personal or let my own insecurities interfere and start thinking it’s for other reasons when he often won’t tell me why he decided to cancel. This occurs after he seems so exited about getting together and often times is the one who makes the plans in the first place. Should I encourage him to talk to me about it or let it be? I don’t know how to handle this moving forward and any advice would be much appreciated.