bigjetplane23
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Posted a while about a friend who ghosted me.
Well, back at it again and unfortunately, I am the one who decided to walk away due to not getting the friendship I wanted in return. However, I feel guilty and bad like I just gave up on a friend who has mental issues, like myself, over my own selfish needs. And maybe I just needed to “suck it up” and deal with the fact that they don’t care about me nor need me at all times, just when it’s in their conveince.
This friend will ghost me from time to time and when they are speaking to me, aren’t really interested in me and what’s going on with me like a friend should.
For example, attended a funeral months ago, knowing that they never asked me how I was feeling about it or checked up on me.
On the other hand, me knowing that a friend was sad and just went through that, you best believe I will be making sure you’re ok and reminding you I’m here for you.
That’s just one of the many things that make me believe this person isn’t a good friend to me.
Should I walk away for good? Or try and go back to them and out up with the “1 way friendship”. Another thing, when they hurt me and are aware of it, they never apologize. However If I do something and I know I’m in the wrong, I say sorry.
They do suffer from anxiety, as do I. But if I had someone that was with me every step of the way with this anxiety journey you best believe I would treat them right.
I just need advice. I feel like my friendship and kindness is being taken for granted however I just can’t seem to let go or walk away not feeling guilty because they have their mental issues as well. Help
Well, back at it again and unfortunately, I am the one who decided to walk away due to not getting the friendship I wanted in return. However, I feel guilty and bad like I just gave up on a friend who has mental issues, like myself, over my own selfish needs. And maybe I just needed to “suck it up” and deal with the fact that they don’t care about me nor need me at all times, just when it’s in their conveince.
This friend will ghost me from time to time and when they are speaking to me, aren’t really interested in me and what’s going on with me like a friend should.
For example, attended a funeral months ago, knowing that they never asked me how I was feeling about it or checked up on me.
On the other hand, me knowing that a friend was sad and just went through that, you best believe I will be making sure you’re ok and reminding you I’m here for you.
That’s just one of the many things that make me believe this person isn’t a good friend to me.
Should I walk away for good? Or try and go back to them and out up with the “1 way friendship”. Another thing, when they hurt me and are aware of it, they never apologize. However If I do something and I know I’m in the wrong, I say sorry.
They do suffer from anxiety, as do I. But if I had someone that was with me every step of the way with this anxiety journey you best believe I would treat them right.
I just need advice. I feel like my friendship and kindness is being taken for granted however I just can’t seem to let go or walk away not feeling guilty because they have their mental issues as well. Help