Hello! I am new here and hope to get some help because my anxiety is out of control. I had an urethral calibration/dilatation last Sunday. I was told it is light procedure but it was not, I had severe pain and bleeding afterwards. I took medication and I was fine for 2 days but now I have pain back there, pain in one of my kidneys and I am freaking out that due to the dilatation I had an infection affecting my kidneys. My doctor told me to took one more dose of the same medication but it has so many side effects...And the biggest problem is that I don't know when go to the ER and when to wait because 'it's all in my head'. How do you cope with such situations and what would you advise me? Thank you