Grace360
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So I went to Olive garden for my grandmas birthday. Had a server. Thought he was cute. I want to like hit on people and shoot my shot however. Here's the issue.
I know the facade people put on in customer service jobs and especially serving. I wanted to shoot my shot. I didn't while there because I didn't wanna be rejected infront of them and I have terrible social anxiety.
I am apart of a group on Facebook and asked some randos how should I go about maybe getting his snapchat. So basically 5 minutes in and everyone on the forum is making me doubt everything I observed. Saying that they worked in customer service and its a facade or that it would be creepy or to not pursue it and basically just making me feel like a weird creep who thinks every server is flirting with them.
So now I dunno what to think about it. I mean be honest. Should I find a way to ask him or leave him alone? He could be just being a server after all.
I know the facade people put on in customer service jobs and especially serving. I wanted to shoot my shot. I didn't while there because I didn't wanna be rejected infront of them and I have terrible social anxiety.
I am apart of a group on Facebook and asked some randos how should I go about maybe getting his snapchat. So basically 5 minutes in and everyone on the forum is making me doubt everything I observed. Saying that they worked in customer service and its a facade or that it would be creepy or to not pursue it and basically just making me feel like a weird creep who thinks every server is flirting with them.
So now I dunno what to think about it. I mean be honest. Should I find a way to ask him or leave him alone? He could be just being a server after all.