sorry it took so long to get back to your question. i take mirtazapine at night as it can make you drowsy. the buspar is an anxyolitic which is supposed to help with anxiety with little to no side effects. i have come to the conclusion that buspar is doing nothing for me. i have now changed to a combo of mirtazapine 15 mg, and escitalopram 10 mg. i try to limit escitalopram[lexapro] because of sexual side effects and rls....Hi. Welcome. May I know how these drugs feel?