Xmas Carol, How Are You?

God'sPrincesse · Feb 27, 2018

janemariesayed said:
Hey Carol, how are you? Is everything okay? I'm missing you and wondering how you are honey. I'm sending you lots of love too and prayers.

I agree with Jane. Hope all is well with you Carol. We miss you very much. Please let us know how you are doing.

xoxoxo

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Concernedgal · Feb 28, 2018

I hope the symptoms she was complaining about were her gerd. Omg. Now i'my freaked out. I hope she ok.

XmasCarol52 · Mar 2, 2018

janemariesayed said:
I do wish you would get in touch @XmasCarol52 I miss you! I hope you are well and am sending you warm hugs and sunshine.

Hi I been anxious and now I am so depressed I was talking with my best friend and I told her how much I worry about people and that is why I call her when she is sick,She looked at me and said why I see you three times a week and beside I have a husband to take care of me,I felt like crawling in a hole .She said she knows how I feel and I dont need to bring it up all the time what the f is that.She tells me when I do call her thanks for calling,she hurt my feelings I know she has a husband but that was so uncalled for telling me not to call her when she is sick.At that time I haven seen her that much.so for now on when she get sick I will not call her.THen she brings up the xmas gifts i gave her like they were junk or something i gav e her hard candies she love those,i think that was a very hurtful thing to say to me ,she has a husband to take care of her,I know that.To say calling her after she sees me three times a week so what,just a couiple of weeks ago she told hugged me and told me she will always be here for me,Sometimes I think she has a split personality.This is bothering me a lot .I mean if i was sick I would be very happy if they called to see if i was alright but not her.She doesnt even want to give me a hug she doesnt need them as she says,i know some people dont like hugs but those other remarks were uncalled for,I have been crying since she left.I know some people donot like hugs,I can never understand it.I was only being me trying to be nice.When she gets sick I care.So what is wrong with that .Lately I feel like I Cannot say anything to her without some stupid ass comment,thanks sisters for caring.

XmasCarol52 · Mar 2, 2018

I am sick and tired of trying to be nice to someone and get yelled at.So she has a family does that mean I cannot help her/She knows me by now i love to help people.I think she is mad at the entire world.Dont take it out on me because it makes me even sicker.I felt like crawling into a hole.I mean what is so wrong calling someone to see if they are alright when they are sick.So what if I see her three days a week,She gave me this look like I was crazy and shook her head.I care about her so sue me.Then she makes remarks about the gifts I gave her for Christmas,there is nothing wrong with the gifts I gave her.She hates hugs doesnt like to hold anyones hand,i do get a hug once in awhile just last week when i was sick she said she really felt for me and aweek before that she hugged me and said she will always be here for me,what am i suppose to think.I know she loves me but why is she taking her anger out on me all of a sudden,

Concernedgal · Mar 2, 2018

First of all....CAROL!!!!SO GLAD YOUR OK. WE WERE WORRIED ABOUT YOU. And second of all ....so rude. A friend shouldn't treat you like that. I know she's your best friend and all...but, what a bitch. Good greif. Don't' worry about it. If I lived next door to you..we would have a glass of ice tea and talk and enjoy each other's company. No one really understands what's it like to lose a husband. I couldn't' imagine. She shouldn't have said what she said and I am sorry. I'm glad your OK. And just remember. ...you have friends here who love and care about you and are happy to help you and are happy to just chat. I'm so glad your ok carol. We love you so get out of your funk because like I said.... you are loved.

XmasCarol52 · Mar 3, 2018

Concernedgal said:
First of all....CAROL!!!!SO GLAD YOUR OK. WE WERE WORRIED ABOUT YOU. And second of all ....so rude. A friend shouldn't treat you like that. I know she's your best friend and all...but, what a bitch. Good greif. Don't' worry about it. If I lived next door to you..we would have a glass of ice tea and talk and enjoy each other's company. No one really understands what's it like to lose a husband. I couldn't' imagine. She shouldn't have said what she said and I am sorry. I'm glad your OK. And just remember. ...you have friends here who love and care about you and are happy to help you and are happy to just chat. I'm so glad your ok carol. We love you so get out of your funk because like I said.... you are loved.

Thank you much for caring.I dont know what is wrong with her a couple of weeks ago when i did manage to get a hug from her she told me she will always be here for me and last week when i was going through hel she said i feel for you huh.I am trying to let it go but she hurt my feelings so bad i thought i was doing something good calling her when she is ill ,hey she even thanked me for calling sometimes i wonder if she has mood swings,there was no need to talk to me like that so u know what the next time she gets sick i wont call and see how she likes that i know she has a husband,but i felt like what she is saying i dont need u when i am sick,oh really.i think she has stuff going on at home so she says but dont go and take it out on me,I love you all here to.I felt like I was being rejected,i wanted to leave the room and cry.when she gets in one of those moods watch out .I think callin gher when she is sick is the nice thing to do.I am trying to be a nice person she made me feel like crap.Like dont bother me at home,

Concernedgal · Mar 3, 2018

Maybe it wasn't about you? Maybe she was delearious... (don't know if that's spelled right ) maybe it was a high fever....or being high off medication. When she gets better...give her a call and get an explanation for why she treated you this way. When some people get sick....they think it's an excuse to be an ass to everyone. ..and that's' just wrong. Nevertheless. ..despite all of this....there was no good excuse for what she did and what she said. She owes you an explanation and an apology. You deserve nothing less. Of we worry about you carol...we love you. And we are glad your ok. We got concerned when you didn't check in.

XmasCarol52 · Mar 3, 2018

Concernedgal said:
Maybe it wasn't about you? Maybe she was delearious... (don't know if that's spelled right ) maybe it was a high fever....or being high off medication. When she gets better...give her a call and get an explanation for why she treated you this way. When some people get sick....they think it's an excuse to be an ass to everyone. ..and that's' just wrong. Nevertheless. ..despite all of this....there was no good excuse for what she did and what she said. She owes you an explanation and an apology. You deserve nothing less. Of we worry about you carol...we love you. And we are glad your ok. We got concerned when you didn't check in.

Right now I think she is angry with the world,I know she isnt feeling well but hey look at the times she came to see me when I was upchucking and just feeling anxious yet I never took it out on her.Her explanation is we see each other three times a week so there is no need to call her ,oh no when someone i love is sick you are damn right i am going to call her,i thought i did the right thing apparently not then why say when i call her thank you for calling.That did hurt my feelinigs when she said she has her husband kind of felt like she was rejecting me or my help.Sometimes I often wonder if she even thinks before she says these things.It isnt my fault that I care about people so much which would she rather have a bitch for a friend?She knows how much i care and for her to even say it only takes her once to know that well excuse me. Sometimes I feel like I am taslking to a different person.All I want to do is help her if I can but she wont let me but she doesn't need to get so sarcastic about it either.If she is angry at the whole world then why take it out o n me?I never did anything wrong to her .The nexxt time I may say something like why are you being so mean?JUst last week she told me she believes in being nice to people. Now talk about being confused.I love you guys too.

XmasCarol52 · Mar 3, 2018

I am not feeling to well today all because of my friend so she has a husband what is she trying to say she doesnt need me?NObody forces her to stay with me.I am very angry and upset.She only needs to be told once how i feel about her well excuse me.Excuse me for being so nice to her.Well when she does get sick again she can just sit there for all i care.Since she doesnt want me calling so what does sitting with me 2-3 days a week hav e to do with calling her when she is sick.Any friend would do that.If she is mad at someone take it out on the person she is mad at not me.I am sick over this.she had one hell of a nerve it is bad enough she had to mention it at all,but twice.I told her i call because i am concerned well no more.It is not like I call and have a half hour conversation with her we dont even talk for five minutes.I will tell you if someone called me when i was sick i would be very grateful.not bitch about ti now i got to do paper work i know thye are going to raise my rent this is gettign to be rediculous,thywe just raised it last year.

XmasCarol52 · Mar 4, 2018

janemariesayed said:
THANK THE GODS IN THE HEAVENS ABOVE! You are okay! My prayers have been answered Carol and you are still in the life breathing the breath and all the other bodily functions! I'm just so happy and made up to hear from you again.

She doesn't sound like a best friend to me. She seems very selfish and uncaring. If you love someone, whoever it is, even it's just a bunny rabbit. you will never see it go without. You would give it what it needed when it needed it. If you could. With friends like her, who needs enemies! You are loved Carol and you know you can come on here and chat with all of us. I'm sorry you have been hurt lately. Remember you always have us. So however that B treats you, smile in her face and know that you are part of this family.

WELCOME HOME CAROL!

Well if she keeps it up she will find herself outside and there will be no more visits.She knows how sensitive I am,I just bet she treats her other friends like this to.I know that she is angry at the world right now however i dont get why she should be angry at me.I dont think I did anything wrong when I Called her when she was sick.She even thanked me when I called.Yjust dont get people sometimes.

God'sPrincesse · Mar 4, 2018

XmasCarol52 said:
I am not feeling to well today all because of my friend so she has a husband what is she trying to say she doesnt need me?NObody forces her to stay with me.I am very angry and upset.She only needs to be told once how i feel about her well excuse me.Excuse me for being so nice to her.Well when she does get sick again she can just sit there for all i care.Since she doesnt want me calling so what does sitting with me 2-3 days a week hav e to do with calling her when she is sick.Any friend would do that.If she is mad at someone take it out on the person she is mad at not me.I am sick over this.she had one hell of a nerve it is bad enough she had to mention it at all,but twice.I told her i call because i am concerned well no more.It is not like I call and have a half hour conversation with her we dont even talk for five minutes.I will tell you if someone called me when i was sick i would be very grateful.not bitch about ti now i got to do paper work i know thye are going to raise my rent this is gettign to be rediculous,thywe just raised it last year.

Im so happy you are okay Carol. Im not happy with what you are going through. I would give your friend space. She will be coming back. TRUST ME. As for your rent, can you fight that?

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Concernedgal · Mar 5, 2018

Look carol... we love you . You have friends and we will always be here for you. And btw... there is something you can do with rent trouble. If your consider disabled. ...they shouldn't be able to kick you out. I don't think anyways

XmasCarol52 · Mar 5, 2018

God'sPrincesse said:
Im so happy you are okay Carol. Im not happy with what you are going through. I would give your friend space. She will be coming back. TRUST ME. As for your rent, can you fight that?

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She will be here today I wonder if she has a mental illness ,because one minute she can be so nice then the next snap at you.She is so angry at everything right now I just dont understand why she wont talk to me about it ,I know she did say once she didnt want to make me anxious well snapping at me isnt helping any.I do try not to let it get to me,but I cannot take it one someone snaps or yells at me,She knows I am very sensitive to.I was only trying to do the right thing when she was sick which would be calling her to see if she was okay .I just wont do it anymore.I cant do anything on the rent .they just raised it last year every

Concernedgal said:
Look carol... we love you . You have friends and we will always be here for you. And btw... there is something you can do with rent trouble. If your consider disabled. ...they shouldn't be able to kick you out. I don't think anyways

time we get an in crease from social security this happens all of my bills go up.People ten to think just because you got a raise they can raise there payments,

XmasCarol52 · Mar 5, 2018

Concernedgal said:
Look carol... we love you . You have friends and we will always be here for you. And btw... there is something you can do with rent trouble. If your consider disabled. ...they shouldn't be able to kick you out. I don't think anyways

I can pay my rent it is just that they are raising it agtain when they just did last year..They dont do anything around here .Some people got kicked out because they couldnt pay there rent and they were disabled mostly everyone here is sinced i live in elderly housing,

Concernedgal · Mar 5, 2018

That's against the law!! They couldn't kick them out. That's obsered. It sound like your landlord is bipolar but, not manic depressive type like me.. I mean the Wacka doodle type like the most severe cases.

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