Stuck

[Michelle2005]

Hey everyone. I've been feeling anxious all day. I saw my ex this morning. It's been a year and a half. I left him b/c I felt obligated to go back to my husband b/c I thought he changed. But now, he's back to his old self. I still miss my ex. But I don't even know if my ex would ever want me back. I don't want to hurt anyone again but I'm tired of hurting. Has anyone been where I am?

 

[Michelle2005]

And my job is stressful. My home life is stressful. I like my alone time but I wish things were easier*

 

[Cuchculan]

Not sure if your ex is on social media? Might be a good starting point. Throw out a few feelers. Few private messages that might be a bit flirty. See how he reacts to them. If he reacts badly, you can always say you were just having a laugh. If he reacts as if interested maybe take it a step further. What have you got to lose?

I would love life to be so much easier. Always seems to be something going on. Not always good. Think we could all do with a nice break from all the negative things that happen in our lives. An Island in the middle of nowhere. Nice sun kissed beach. Sounds like heaven.

 

[Michelle2005]

Thanks Cuchculan. I feel stuck though b/c I'm not gonna reach out to him again b/c my husband said if I did, he would leave. So basically I can't contact him unless me and my husband separate again. Which I don't want to do again b/c we are depending on eachother financially right now and we don't want to put our kids through another separation.