Something Nice! Feel Good Food. Chakra Cheesecake....mmmm

[janemariesayed]

 

[Concernedgal]

It' finally the end for my bam bam. My heart is so broken right now.

 

[Kelculator]

I wish to taste it from my screen. It's night here and you got me craving for some midnight snacks

 

[janemariesayed]

I wish to taste it from my screen. It's night here and you got me craving for some midnight snacks

The recipes are from FOOD MONSTER and they are vegan so no fat or really naughty stuff. Looks really scrumptious doesn't it. It's made from fruit and oats I think, that's all!

 

[janemariesayed]

It' finally the end for my bam bam. My heart is so broken right now.

I am so sorry for your loss. He is not in any pain now and he had a wonderful life with you. I know you will be bursting into tears all over the place these days so please know that I am here for you. I'm feeling sad too for Bambam. Poor little mite. It's not fair that dogs don't live long enough. It's the one thing I don't agree with God about. Please think about getting a new pup. A new pup wont replace Bambam, but it will help you to deal with it. It will make it easier for you believe me. It's the only thing that works with me. My heart goes out to you at this time Michelle. I'm going to light a candle for him. Right now and ask God to care about his journey to doggy heaven. Such sad news.

 

[Concernedgal]

I cannot don't again...fall in love....get attached. ..and then lose them all over again. Because now thing' are weird between my husband and I because Bambam has been around as long a' we've been married. We feel like strangers again . Are life has been dedicated to Bambam all.these years and now ....he's gone. My husband is different now. ...I am too.

 

[janemariesayed]

I cannot don't again...fall in love....get attached. ..and then lose them all over again. Because now thing' are weird between my husband and I because Bambam has been around as long a' we've been married. We feel like strangers again . Are life has been dedicated to Bambam all.these years and now ....he's gone. My husband is different now. ...I am too.

Oh dear, that doesn't sound good at all. Now I am worried about your relationship as well. I wish that you would get another dog. I know what you mean though about the love you get and feel for them. I love Carly to bits now. I got him after my Sasha died. She was 11 and I didn't realise how much I really did love her until she passed over. And Loopy was miserable too so I got Carl. Loopy perked up straight away and was happy to have a new playmate and me? Well, after two years I've been able to move on because of Carl and I am left with happy memories of Sasha.

How are you doing? I've been thinking about you and wondering how you are coping with this. Sending you hugs.

 

[janemariesayed]

You okay @Concernedgal I know you're not feeling good because of Bambam. Come and talk we are here for you. sending you a huge hug for comfort.

 

[Concernedgal]

I'm numb...don't really know how I feel.

 

[janemariesayed]

I'm numb...don't really know how I feel.

Numb is how I feel about my dad dying. Like it has happened to someone else. Isn't that dissociation? How are things with you and your hubs, have you been giving each other support or distant?

 

[Concernedgal]

Not sure. Sometimes we feel like strangers and sometimes we don't. Every night before I go to bed...I look over on my bambam usually spot and I almost say goodnight but, I have to stop because he's not there anymore.

 

[janemariesayed]

Not sure. Sometimes we feel like strangers and sometimes we don't. Every night before I go to bed...I look over on my bambam usually spot and I almost say goodnight but, I have to stop because he's not there anymore.

Why don't you still say goodnight to him then? I still talk to Sasha and Tao. Sometimes I say hello to them when I notice their photo. I purposely put Sasha's pic up at the bottom of the stairs so I see it whenever I walk downstairs. And as my pc is up in the third bedroom, and the pup Carly wants to go outside every half an hour means I am up and down the stairs all day. So I see that pic a lot! Try putting Bambams photo up where it is very clear to see and kiss your index finger and then press your index finger on the nose in his pic. It will make you feel like you can still give him love. Sometimes when something is so bad, it's best to throw yourself into it.

 

[Concernedgal]

Because as harsh as this sounds. ...i'my trying to let go for my own sake but, I will never forget him. It hurts too much to hold on.

 

[Rinka]

It will take time to completely let go and move on.
I find that a dog is like a child. My little Chrissie is like a baby to my partner and me. She is our little girl.
It will take time and you should take yourself the time. Both you and your husband.
But Jane is right finding another dog might help ease the pain.
You could check in shelters for the unwanted the ones that have been left behind by others. These dogs want and deserve to be loved again.

 

[Concernedgal]

I hear take but, I don't want to bond with another dog like that ever again. Losing bambam almost killed us.

 

[Kelculator]

I hear take but, I don't want to bond with another dog like that ever again. Losing bambam almost killed us.

I'm really sorry to know.

 

[janemariesayed]

I hear take but, I don't want to bond with another dog like that ever again. Losing bambam almost killed us.

It is such a shame. It may take time to get over him. It took me a year to stop crying when Sasha passed and I had Carlos and Loopy to help me through it. I couldn't be without my two or I would surely take my own life. As long as I have two dogs, then ya'll know I will stay in the life.

Even Loopy was happier once I brought Carlos home. Well, Loopy came with us actually. She waited in the car and was really happy, but well behaved when Carlos sat in the back on the way home. Try not to dismiss getting another dog just yet. You are going through so many emotions right now over this loss that it may cloud your judgement. Perhaps you and your hubs visit a shelter? Just have a look around. It may help with your decision. You know you can give a dog a loving home.

The shame of my life is I am childless. So my dogs are my children. The shame comes when I have to bury my children. It hurts like hell but I keep on with it. Dogs live in the moment so they are good for my PTSD and anxieties. They are great for my agoraphobia and lift me out of my depression.