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Someone went and ratted me out

XmasCarol52

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I had a very bad spell of yelling the other day two NOISY busy bodies went and reported me so guess who comes to see me today my land lady,she was nice about it she told me it isnt then yelling so much it is the language .If they want to go and get quiet then go live in a cemetary. Oh poor babies never heard anyone swearing these same people complain about the cats outside to my poor neighbor got ratted out because she let one of the cats inside.I think it is about time someone tell these two busy bodies to learn how to mind there own f business.What are they so perfect they never swore in there lifes.I have been doing pretty good lately and i told the bitch that she agreed,Then stop coming over here complaining to me she got complaints i keep telling her it is my bipolar which i cannot help.yet they go and write me up anyway,Tell me please what kind of living is that?You can t even fart around here or someone will go and complain about it,Some people need to get a life and mind there own f business.Have they got nothing better to do then stick there big fat noses where it doesnt belong.How would u like to have to live where you had to watch ev ery single move?I hate my kids for putting me here they know I didnt want to move yet they stuck me in this god awful place.I just told her i had a v ery bad day of course I did not tell her why she figured it was the computer she was half right she wanted to know if anything else happened i looked at her and told her no,because it is none of her f arss business. Unfortunately the handy man around here is going to be part of her family and i know he must have heard me and she did say something that he mentioned it . Ya because he knows I was getting all rattle because I was trying to cash in my gift card and stupid amazon kept telling me the code was wrong u would be mad to if you had to go through that,plus my rider shows up exactly at the time my appointment was for then when I get to my doctors they refuse to see me so I went there for nothing the only good thing I got to eat some thing out.So you would have had a bad day to,I was nervous enough waiting for the driver i didnt know who she was then all of this stuff happens who wouldnt have a bad day and I told her a lot of people have bad days she claims she wanted to know if I was alright no she didn't she just wanted to stick her fat nose where it doesnt belong she doesnt care about you she is a two faced b. This woman would back stab you anytime. I dont like her or trust her.She pretends she is your friend then if she was my so called friend she would understand my illness which by the way causes me to lash out sometimes.There was no need to write me up.I cannot move because it is way to much stress for me.I heard other places were just as bad.So I am stuck in a place with creeps.Yes I am mad but I am not yelling oh ya one woman got ratted out because she let the cat inside .So what it wasnt doing anything I know rules are rules but still it only walks inside looks around then goes outside so what is the big deal??? I have heard that people around here are afraid because of the busy bodies.I sit in the back that way nobody can see me.Well I am not feeling to well today anyway.very tired and depressed. I miss my husband,had be been alive I am sure he would tell her how about illness. I see that is the way it works around here physical illness counts but a mental illness is bad.JUst because we are mentally ill does not make us dangerous and I am sick and tired of people thinking we are because of it. My own mother treats me like I am two for Gods sakes.I am mad but I am not yelling.
 

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People like that gets a kick out of being tattle tales. They tattle because they get attention for it. It s sad really. They are the type of people that probably did it on school. And guess there parents never taught them otherwise. At the same time though. . As annying as they are though, you should try not to let them get to you. But, also I believe that you should get your nerves in order and stand up to these tattle tales. They need a good "talking " to. But, use caution at the same time.. don't get kicked out
 

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I don't even know these people they are so far down from where I live so I dont even know how they could even hear what I say.What are they so perfect they never yell? To tell her to that i swear big deal everyone I know swears even my kids. What are these people nuns get offended when I yell? They need to get a life and start to worry about there own business and skeletons in the closet wanna make a bet they have a lot of them. They would be mad to when your doctor wouldnt see u just because u were 15 minutes late and the waiting room was empty.A lot of people that know about that were not to happy about it either How many times do we get there early and have to wait? I am so sick and tired of people and doctors ,no not you people here just where i live and doctors too.
 

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I know what u meant sweetie. I'm going to go and get my cna license. I can't wait. I'm going to commit myself to being a good one though.
 

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Thank you Carol and so are you. I think that's why we get stepped on in our lives and people think they can get away with it. And they wonder why we yell . Lol
 

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I feel like I made a great friend in you. Isn't it true the more nicer we are the more people tend to walk all over us.That just sucks like a vacuum .You are a sister I never had
 

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Aww carol. You've become my sister too. I've enjoyed our little conversation on the conversation panel. You get me. You just get me. We are like 2 peas in a pod. Hey. Will you draw me a pea pod like you did before? I liked that. I like all yor drawings.
 

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We have to stick together .What else do we have?Of course I will draw you a new peas in a pod pix here it is. I even made a smiley on them i hope you like it.2piap.JPG [;i,s.JPG a gift goe.JPG a prob lems.JPG acases.JPG acantsss.JPG adoll.JPG ahd.JPG
 

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Omg. So cute. What do you think about me specializing in mental health nursing?
 

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I think it is great that you can be able to do that.I think u are such a strong woman i could never do that>I love to help people but how can I when I am afraid to go out. I suppose I do it in other ways...
 

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Thank you Carol! It is my family and upbringing that has made me feel like I'm a bad person. I'm going through screening at the moment for therapy with a psychiatrist. I'm very happy about it, even though I know it is going to be hard.
 

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You are not a bad person,but you know what I feel the same way because of my kids never calling me or coming to see me.I feel like I am bad that is why they never come. Good luck with your psychiatrist
 
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