Need help please. Not wearing a bra. Is it gross? Honestly

[Kayteez]

Hey

I suffer from anxiety and panic attacks

This is off topic but upset me so I hoped for answers from anyone please

I needed to try to chill a little so I went out for a walk and because I had been just around the house (where I dont wear a bra at home due to comfort), I did not put a bra on to go for a walk. I just needed to chill and think about things and to be honest could not be bother ed putting a bra on to go for a walk

While I was out I saw a family friend and they obviously told my fami ly.

Basically they went off at me and said it was wrong and gross to be braless unless I'm at home. Pretty much said some bad words to me

Ps. I was dressed normal. Not dressed in a sexy way what so ever. Just not wearing a bra

So I wanted to know what other people thought and if it was unfair? Is it gross that I did that? Is being braless gross really?

 

[Rinka]

I don’t think it’s gross, at all Really. It should be nothing someone could complain about. It’s your body and your decision. I mean you didn’t go to a formal event and had your girls hanging out. I don’t see what’s wrong about it. There are women that never ware bras.

 

[Hurt&Hopeful]

Hey

I suffer from anxiety and panic attacks

This is off topic but upset me so I hoped for answers from anyone please

I needed to try to chill a little so I went out for a walk and because I had been just around the house (where I dont wear a bra at home due to comfort), I did not put a bra on to go for a walk. I just needed to chill and think about things and to be honest could not be bother ed putting a bra on to go for a walk

While I was out I saw a family friend and they obviously told my fami ly.

Basically they went off at me and said it was wrong and gross to be braless unless I'm at home. Pretty much said some bad words to me

Ps. I was dressed normal. Not dressed in a sexy way what so ever. Just not wearing a bra

So I wanted to know what other people thought and if it was unfair? Is it gross that I did that? Is being braless gross really?

I'm sorry your family got upset about it. Sometimes we just have bigger things on our minds - not a big deal until someone makes it one.

 

[Kayteez]

Thank you

 

[Kayteez]

Not sure why it upset me so much but I guess sometimes small things do when other things are on your mind

 

[Kelculator]

Not sure why it upset me so much but I guess sometimes small things do when other things are on your mind

Yeah, I totally understand. I personally think it's ok, and I'm sorry you got criticized for it.

 

[AbejaReina]

I'm just being completely honest, I wouldn't do it. I like to put on a hoodie when I'm not wearing a bra so that I don't have to worry about people looking. I personally don't think it's gross but I think it can be distracting. If you don't mind people looking though, I don't think there is anything wrong with it. That being said, I don't think I could do it without feeling really weird. Another thing I'll do is put on a shirt and an undershirt so it's less obvious. Even around the house I'm not comfortable because guy friends of my siblings come over without notice often