My Triumph

[Camden]

I had a situation at work earlier this week that I could have handled very differently, but I didn't.

I heard that a very large check had been misplaced somewhere between our client and our accounting department. I became anxious because I handle some bookkeeping tasks and work with accounting. I thought to myself if this mistake is tracked to me, I could get fired. I stopped myself and firmly told myself: "I've looked through all of my records of received mail and scanned items, I've covered my butt by keeping all these records, I've done everything within my control to assist, and there is no sign of that check in my custody!" I was able to relax a little bit, especailly when I discussed with my coworkers everything I did to look for the check.

Turns out this issue had nothing to do with me, or anyone in my department for that matter. The sender had put the wrong mailing address on the check and it had been received on the other side of town and voided. Crisis averted!

I was able to rationally tell myself that I had done everything within my power to keep organized and keep record of everything mailed to me, and that this check was not anywhere in our possession. I told myself: "I am not going to get fired for this mistake that I am not involved with." I collaborated and confided in my colleagues and we were able to find out the truth about something that was not the end of the world. I feel pretty good about myself for not freaking out and going down a bad mental path.

 

[cheer_mom]

Good job for talking yourself through it. It always makes me feel good when I realize I was able to get through a situation without having a panic attack. One moment at a time. Keep up the good work!!

 

[MATD]

That’s how it’s done! That’s the voice of truth speaking louder than the voice of fear. Keep it up! One step at a time gets you where where you are going!

 

[Jonathan123]

Oh Yes! You were able to rationalise. It's a big step froward when you can do that. In anxiety attacks it's almost impossible to be logical or rationalise. You looked at the situation and did something about it and didn't panic. You should be pleased with yourself. Continue to do what you did. Not only did you take action but you accepted it.

 

[Camden]

Thank you everyone

It’s a great feeling to build upon this previous episode and know I can rationalize through a threatening situation. By doing that, I kept my cool and ultimately realized the situation had nothing to do with me and I was able to move on with my life.

The things that helped me the most were positive self talk, my faith, and confiding in other supportive people. Regardless of your own religion/faith or lack thereof, it’s possible to look beyond the messiness of everyday life and find inspiration to keep pressing on.

Every day brings new problems and I’m gradually learning to handle them with more confidence.

 

[Jonathan123]

Thank God for a positive post. I have no doubt that with a combination of faith and trust in yourself you will succeed. "Take no thought for the morrow". Christ's words echo down the years. We fret and worry about what might happen. Of course, as Humans we need make plans ahead, but taking everything day by day is better than constant agitation about the future. Make plans by all means, then forget about them and take it all day by day.

 

[Camden]

Today was another battle with rapid fire demands, unexpected problems, unhappy coworkers, and delays with shipping and receiving office supplies.

We’re incredibly busy at my office and everyone is working onsite now that COVID is at a somewhat better level. My place of business is a “squeaky wheel gets the grease” type of place, where there can be quite a bit of entitlement and impatience.

Instead of going to pieces when I came back from an appointment, I decided to buckle down and deal with it. I grabbed my laptop, found a vacant, isolated office where I wouldn’t be disturbed, and got down to business. In a matter of 1.5 hours I had gotten to the bottom of the supply chain issues, responded to everyone’s emails and developed a new strategy for my colleagues and me to abide by next time we have a crisis involving supply shortages.

It’s not the mistakes and issues that define you, it’s how you respond to said mistakes and issues that earns you respect. I am challenging myself to stand firm and remain calm in the face of emergencies and workplace upset. It’s challenging, but I am giving myself credit for doing it.

 

[MATD]

I am very pleased that you shared you success with us. You did what you had to do and got it done! I’ll add my pat on the back to you my friend! Not only did you succeed at work, but you brought a much needed example here so that all of us can see that it is possible to overcome anxiety. No matter how small or big, a success is just that a success! Tiny steps or large steps all take us to the goal post. Thank you and God bless you!

 

[Camden]

I am very pleased that you shared you success with us. You did what you had to do and got it done! I’ll add my pat on the back to you my friend! Not only did you succeed at work, but you brought a much needed example here so that all of us can see that it is possible to overcome anxiety. No matter how small or big, a success is just that a success! Tiny steps or large steps all take us to the goal post. Thank you and God bless you!

Thank you very much MATD! I’m so glad to hear my posts are encouraging others. I’ve enjoyed sharing my good days with managing anxiety and navigating stressful situations.

The power of prayer is a wonderful thing. When I stop and pray in the midst of chaos, it really calms me and clears my perspective. Regardless of your religion, finding encouragement through spirituality can make a tremendous difference.

 

[MATD]

I certainly agree. My belief in our Father is what keeps me going. You are definitely an inspiration, you make our Father proud!

 

[Jonathan123]

Thank you very much MATD! I’m so glad to hear my posts are encouraging others. I’ve enjoyed sharing my good days with managing anxiety and navigating stressful situations.

The power of prayer is a wonderful thing. When I stop and pray in the midst of chaos, it really calms me and clears my perspective. Regardless of your religion, finding encouragement through spirituality can make a tremendous difference.

Oh Yes!! I am not religious in the accepted sense, but I do believe mankind is not just mind and body. There is that indefinable element called spirituality that is there also, but mostly unrecognised. I am so very pleased for you, as I am sure we all are. Success stories in these times is to be appreciated and yours certainly is. Many Thanks.