hi guys please help me im scared i wont make any friends. i dont know if people will like me. can you please give me tips for not to worry about making friends and i rlly want to have a flued conversation with someone but that wont ork sinse im always tense.
im scared
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Jonathan123
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And they may be just as tense as you! Human beings suffer from many emotions very few of which are seen. Your self worth is at a low ebb. It's a kind of inferiority complex. But why? You are you. There is no one else in this world that is like you. You may have so much to offer to others, but all that is kept bottled up by your anxiety. You are inside a shell of your own making, and like the chick it's time to break out. You will never make friends by sitting and thinking about it. There is no alternative but to go out and mingle. Years ago I was like you. Now I am much older I just don't give a damn what anyone thinks of me if I am happy in my own skin. If I act from love and understanding then that's all that matters. Anyway, what is another's opinion about you worth when they don't know you? Try not to judge others, See them as fellow humans with all the complex problems we all have. No one is free from emotions.
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You have to take a deep breath and put yourself out there. Have you thought of joining any groups? Years ago I was on my own and didn't go out or have any friends I could go to, so I joined a couple of charities. To begin with I sat and listened but over coffee people came up and started talking to me and eventually became friends. The thing is if you go to a group you have something in common to begin with and if you don't like it you just don't go again. Good luck
ok thankyou for the advice
