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XmasCarol52

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i had a little dog along with a cat two cats a very long time ago someone hit the cat and just left her there to do ,some man picked her up and put her in a box and brought her to us, she died right after she barely made it ti the couch i c ried,i wish i could have caught that sob who hit here,Snowy was our dog because he was all white.he was a very good watch dog.I cried when he died to.he was just to okl.
 

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Thas a sad story.. it truly is. When my bambam goes .. I will be devastated. I can't imagine. I just cant. And BTW. .. i'm having a small panic attack right now. When will this bull **** end?
 

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That's such a sad story :( I'm sorry for your loss @XmasCarol52 .
We lost my fiance's childhood dog in January, he was a 14-year-old Collie/Rottweiler mix. He had a stroke. We're still devastated. I consider my two current dogs my daughters. Pets are family, losing them is the most heartbreaking thing ever. :(
 

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I am so sorry for your loss too,I know pets are family.They seem to be always there when we needed them,I can remember my daughter getting a kitten she wanted us to keep it our house for a couple of weeks well a couple of weeks turned into months I didnt like it at first but that little kitten stayed with me all of the time when I went to bed at night on my couch there she was right on the floor next to me or whenever I laid down she would come up and rest on top of my stomach,she was afraid of everyone else but me.Whenever she say my husband or daughter and son come she would run.Maybe Mia new i was anxious or something i dont know>I loved her so much one day she snuck outside I couldnt find her we all looked for her but she never came back.I was so upset I miss that little cat.She was my best friend.
 

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That's such a sad story :( I'm sorry for your loss @XmasCarol52 .
We lost my fiance's childhood dog in January, he was a 14-year-old Collie/Rottweiler mix. He had a stroke. We're still devastated. I consider my two current dogs my daughters. Pets are family, losing them is the most heartbreaking thing ever. :(
HI lukas. Good to see what you look like. It always nice to see the face that's giving the advice. To me... it makes it more personal. I don't know what what i'm going to do when I lose my pit bull bambam. He's really old and I see signs of aging. It's getting harder for him to walk and he's had a couple of seizures and there was a time when he couldn't do anything and I thoug he was going to die that week but, he held on. But, I fear that I won't be so lucky for long. This is my son.. bambam was purchased after I foundon't out I couldn't have children and now.. it's like my son is about to die. So not fair. Not looking forward to this.:(
 

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HI lukas. Good to see what you look like. It always nice to see the face that's giving the advice. To me... it makes it more personal. I don't know what what i'm going to do when I lose my pit bull bambam. He's really old and I see signs of aging. It's getting harder for him to walk and he's had a couple of seizures and there was a time when he couldn't do anything and I thoug he was going to die that week but, he held on. But, I fear that I won't be so lucky for long. This is my son.. bambam was purchased after I foundon't out I couldn't have children and now.. it's like my son is about to die. So not fair. Not looking forward to this.:(
Thanks :) I like seeing what people look like too!
I'm so sorry you're going through that @Concernedgal , there's truly nothing worse than losing a loved one. For those of us who can't or don't have kids, our dogs are our kids. I also have a Pit Bull, her name is Nova.
I'm here for you and thinking of you and I hope you don't lose him.
 

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I am so sorry for your loss too,I know pets are family.They seem to be always there when we needed them,I can remember my daughter getting a kitten she wanted us to keep it our house for a couple of weeks well a couple of weeks turned into months I didnt like it at first but that little kitten stayed with me all of the time when I went to bed at night on my couch there she was right on the floor next to me or whenever I laid down she would come up and rest on top of my stomach,she was afraid of everyone else but me.Whenever she say my husband or daughter and son come she would run.Maybe Mia new i was anxious or something i dont know>I loved her so much one day she snuck outside I couldnt find her we all looked for her but she never came back.I was so upset I miss that little cat.She was my best friend.
Thank you, I'm sorry to hear you lost your cat :(
 

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Thank you she was such a beautiful cat when we first got her you could hold her in the palm of your hand.
I'm glad you have good memories of her, I know that won't make the pain of losing her go away but at least you have nice thoughts to remember her by.
 

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I'm glad you have good memories of her, I know that won't make the pain of losing her go away but at least you have nice thoughts to remember her by.
Hi and thank you.She was such a beautiful cat my buddy.
 

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I would be lost without my two furry babes. When I've been upset they give me a group hug. They care about me when I am sick and get me up and about playing. Both my babes are still young. Well, Loopy was 7 last June but she still has some good years left in her yet for a boxer. (she's my avatar!) When I have a panic attack they always come and see if I am okay. Pets are really good for people who have some kind of anxiety because they really help calm and relax you.
 

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I would be lost without my two furry babes. When I've been upset they give me a group hug. They care about me when I am sick and get me up and about playing. Both my babes are still young. Well, Loopy was 7 last June but she still has some good years left in her yet for a boxer. (she's my avatar!) When I have a panic attack they always come and see if I am okay. Pets are really good for people who have some kind of anxiety because they really help calm and relax you.
I know they comfort you isnt it funny how they know when we are feeling sick?It amazes me how smart animals are.I loved it when Mia would lay on top of me she was so adorable,you would have absolutely loved her even Homer the other cat got along with her pretty good ,Homer was my sons cat he was very comforting to.
 

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It is like they have a sixth sense. Especially when they have lived with us for a time they get to know us really well, perhaps better than we could ever know them!
 

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just wondering how is everyone doing on this beautiful day? I am tired and somewhat anxious.
 

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just wondering how is everyone doing on this beautiful day? I am tired and somewhat anxious.
I'm not doing too bad thanks, Carol, how are you? I'm still into my baking lately and made a frangipane tart two days ago.:p My therapy is going okay but she is very quiet and I am beginning to think she is more depressed than me!
 

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My stomach has been bothering me all morning must have been from that box of cereal I ate yesterday.I took some kaopetac for it.I cannot eat for now but when I feel better I will.I been shaking as well my tummy feels like I got about a hundred butterflies in it.I am sure that doesn't help with the gas and all,I should run my own gas station with all the gas I have lol.I could call it Carol's Gas ,lol
 

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I hope everyone's doing well :)

On the subject of pets, I finally found an avatar that I'm okay with lol, it took a lot of searching but I found a picture of me where I'm somewhat smiling :D Smiling is hard for me because of my muscle coordination issues. But that's a picture of me with one of my dogs from work, her name was Ziva, like the NCIS character! She was one of my favorites of all time and I would have taken her home if I could have, but I live in an apartment and that's no place for a Border Collie mix! :rolleyes:

I love everyone's cat and dog stories, I hope to hear more :)

Carol, your comment about the gas made me laugh, lol :D
 

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My stomach has been bothering me all morning must have been from that box of cereal I ate yesterday.I took some kaopetac for it.I cannot eat for now but when I feel better I will.I been shaking as well my tummy feels like I got about a hundred butterflies in it.I am sure that doesn't help with the gas and all,I should run my own gas station with all the gas I have lol.I could call it Carol's Gas ,lol
:D:D:D Carols Gas! Ha ha that is so funny Carol, you do so often make me laugh. I just imagine a world where we can fuel our cars on human gas. There would be a deposit point! Ha ha! Then that would get a queue and all the people would be grimacing holding in the Gas till it was their turn at the deposit point!:D:D:D
 
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