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I am tired of people around me

1imaan1

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From few days, I have been getting ill feelings towards every human being. I don't know what is happening to me. People just wanna criticize me. I try to help them but they don't wanna help me. I asked for some advice but only 2 persons helped me. Others just listened to the problem as if they are enjoying what is happening in my personal life. I feel as if they are so selfish. They just wanna take help but don't wanna help others. Even if they don't have anything to advice,at least words of comfort may help, isn't it? I literally avoid asking for help from people because I don't wanna disturb them but when i do, consider it a serious issue. Next i am tired of being criticized. Even if i help them,they don't take it seriously. They humiliate so much. It's as if they slit your neck into two and say"Oh sorry,sorry.. I didn't mean that." Yet i forgive them even before they ask for it. Please help me. I have so many hardships and i just need words of comfort to be least but they don't understand what one is going through. I can't discuss my problems with anyone, they would consider it a burden ,i am sure. I am tired of keeping them within myself.
I don't know what is happening to my heart. It's getting filled with filthy feelings, I don't know what should i do?

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Bobnnat

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It’s difficult for many people to understand anxiety of all kinds. When someone doesn’t know how to help, they can act as if they don’t care. I’ve learned this and the only people I dare to talk to about my issues are my wife and doctor. Even then, my wife especially acts more exasperated than compassionate. Again, I believe it’s due to frustration, as she does not suffer from anxiety.

This Board is helpful, as were all in the same boat even though our specific anxieties may differ. Feel free to PM if you need someone to listen and try to help.

Bob
 

Aries

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People have their own problems and often have trouble hearing other people's. Honestly having 2 people offer help is pretty good. Who are these people? Others your age? Lots of teenagers have not fully developed empathy.Or if they have empathy they may little to no confidence to engage on an emotional level.
 

1imaan1

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I think you are right. I'll try my best.
May God bless you both

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Joshua1

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From few days, I have been getting ill feelings towards every human being. I don't know what is happening to me. People just wanna criticize me. I try to help them but they don't wanna help me. I asked for some advice but only 2 persons helped me. Others just listened to the problem as if they are enjoying what is happening in my personal life. I feel as if they are so selfish. They just wanna take help but don't wanna help others. Even if they don't have anything to advice,at least words of comfort may help, isn't it? I literally avoid asking for help from people because I don't wanna disturb them but when i do, consider it a serious issue. Next i am tired of being criticized. Even if i help them,they don't take it seriously. They humiliate so much. It's as if they slit your neck into two and say"Oh sorry,sorry.. I didn't mean that." Yet i forgive them even before they ask for it. Please help me. I have so many hardships and i just need words of comfort to be least but they don't understand what one is going through. I can't discuss my problems with anyone, they would consider it a burden ,i am sure. I am tired of keeping them within myself.
I don't know what is happening to my heart. It's getting filled with filthy feelings, I don't know what should i do?

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Do what you are thinking of not doing, and talk about your issues, with a loved one.
 
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