Strawberry Banana Sundae
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note: you can ignore the description if you want, I just want you to answer the question. No advice wanted. No arguments either. Thank you.
I remember one time having a conversation with someone and when I was offering solutions on racism, the lady I was talking to kept acting difficult to my ideas. She often kept debunking them and denies the fact that SHE asked me what the solution is in the first place. I first suggested to have a non-violent protest, but she kept whining about how it always ends in violence and I’m so narrow-minded. Funny how she says that and yet she doesn’t consider what Martin Luther King Jr. did. She kept complaining about my solutions being too lazy and ignorant when she kept pulling up segregation. I told her yes I am aware of segregation, but schools and other public places are more integrated and diverse now than they were a century ago.
She got angry and called my statement ignorant and hateful and told me she’s not talking to me anymore. Funny how she was the one who kept encouraging progress yet failed to realize that there was at least some progress already made. She acted as if slavery and segregation still existed in the United States despite I told her the facts. I asked her why. I then told her her reactions over the things she started were stating a lot more about her than me. She responded (forget the statement that she wasn’t talking to me) “let’s look back in the thread and see who REALLY got mad”. I told her this is not necessary and she needs to calm down. She then jumped to conclusions and said “see? YOU got mad because you didn’t like what I said. You got mad over the things you started and all I was doing was telling it like it is. Is that right? Admit it!”. I could’ve called her out on her bluff but I decided she was too difficult for me to protest anymore, so I finally gave in. This was her motive, to win an argument despite how irrational it sounded.
I went somewhere else to have a similar conversation with someone else but she kept butting in and telling her “thoughts” over how wrong I am and how right she is over a controversial topic. I was fed up. I demanded why she thinks that. She replied “because it’s hostile and you know it”. I was tired of listening to her so I finally blocked her. What’s worse is that she wasn’t the only person who acted like that. There was also a guy who kept denying what he said even though I called him out several times. He kept laughing at me and making my statements sound ridiculous. He often told me I was talking nonsense despite the evidence I pull up. And he would twist the whole story to make ME look bad and whatever he does, he denies it saying “your words, not mine” and “don’t put words in my mouth”.
I remember one time having a conversation with someone and when I was offering solutions on racism, the lady I was talking to kept acting difficult to my ideas. She often kept debunking them and denies the fact that SHE asked me what the solution is in the first place. I first suggested to have a non-violent protest, but she kept whining about how it always ends in violence and I’m so narrow-minded. Funny how she says that and yet she doesn’t consider what Martin Luther King Jr. did. She kept complaining about my solutions being too lazy and ignorant when she kept pulling up segregation. I told her yes I am aware of segregation, but schools and other public places are more integrated and diverse now than they were a century ago.
She got angry and called my statement ignorant and hateful and told me she’s not talking to me anymore. Funny how she was the one who kept encouraging progress yet failed to realize that there was at least some progress already made. She acted as if slavery and segregation still existed in the United States despite I told her the facts. I asked her why. I then told her her reactions over the things she started were stating a lot more about her than me. She responded (forget the statement that she wasn’t talking to me) “let’s look back in the thread and see who REALLY got mad”. I told her this is not necessary and she needs to calm down. She then jumped to conclusions and said “see? YOU got mad because you didn’t like what I said. You got mad over the things you started and all I was doing was telling it like it is. Is that right? Admit it!”. I could’ve called her out on her bluff but I decided she was too difficult for me to protest anymore, so I finally gave in. This was her motive, to win an argument despite how irrational it sounded.
I went somewhere else to have a similar conversation with someone else but she kept butting in and telling her “thoughts” over how wrong I am and how right she is over a controversial topic. I was fed up. I demanded why she thinks that. She replied “because it’s hostile and you know it”. I was tired of listening to her so I finally blocked her. What’s worse is that she wasn’t the only person who acted like that. There was also a guy who kept denying what he said even though I called him out several times. He kept laughing at me and making my statements sound ridiculous. He often told me I was talking nonsense despite the evidence I pull up. And he would twist the whole story to make ME look bad and whatever he does, he denies it saying “your words, not mine” and “don’t put words in my mouth”.