God Gave Us A Beautiful Day Today

[XmasCarol52]

I know with me it is so beautiful out I sat outside for two hours,very hot though.God certainly gave us a beautiful day. It is hot and humid which I do not like the humidity but thank God for air conditioners.I so wish that I could be down at the beach but with my agoraphobia I cannot be besides I cant drive anyway. HOwever I do invison it the ocean waters with the waves rolling in me jumping into the waves I can almost feel the cool water hit me.Hey if u cannot go just think of something u like that will help some with your anxieties.Tomorrow it is suppose to hit 95 and more humid i think i may just stay inside if it gets to be that bad.. Hey at least I got to speak to my little grandson over the phone he knew it was me.I could hear him telling my mom it is my dads mom,he is only 6 but so smart,I miss him and his sister so darn much,I wish that God would help with that,Now bless everyone andtry to have a nice day. the sing is from the movie sing it is a wonderful movie

 

[XmasCarol52]

 

[janemariesayed]

I am so pleased that you got to speak with your grandson. That is fantastic news. You never know, he may start to press his mom and dad to see you! I really hope for that. I wonder how long it would take for them to give in to him?

 

[XmasCarol52]

Forever.if I cannot get them to come here he wont

 

[janemariesayed]

Well, I wish he would Carol! He can't be against his mum forever. what an awful long tantrum for him to be having. It's not a very good example to his children. He isn't showing them family values at all.

 

[XmasCarol52]

My daughter is just as bad I never get to see her until Christmas day at my sons house,she never calls or comes by thye care more about my mother then they do me.. I know she is there grandmother but i feel like I am being ignored.

 

[janemariesayed]

But you are their Grandmother and your mom is their Great Grandmother. You have a right to see them. It is such a shame that they treat you like this. God only knows what your own mom must have said to them over the years.

My ex-wicked-stepmother was like that. She was very good at putting the rest of the family against me. With her cunning and lies none of them liked me very much. Your mom reminds me of her. I know what that feels like. Sending hugs.

 

[XmasCarol52]

I know I do and I live only ten minutes away from them I should know because his wife timed it a couple of times .Who does that?My mom is about 20 minutes away you go and figure it out because I cannot.Oh believe me my mom drives them crazy she treats them like little babies,she gets mad whenever they go on vacation as if they should just sit around and wait for her.Funny u know what they will call my mom whenever they go away to let her know they are alright but do they call me/NO I often wonder if it is my mental illness which keeps them away and that is not fair,even my son told me grandma drives him crazy then explain to me why he goes there every Sunday when I hear how they ordered a pizza and they all ate together that bothers me i think why cant they come to my place once in awhile we could order a pizza but no.

 

[janemariesayed]

It really isn't fair and you wonder why they don't include you sometimes. It must be hurtful to be rejected like that. I honestly can't think why your son is like that. They can go further to visit your mum but not do only half the journey time to see you. that is very rude and thoughtless. Your son may just enjoy an afternoon's pizza with you and the family. If he would just try it the one time!

 

[XmasCarol52]

I cannot get my kids to do anything even my daughter doesnt care,let me tell u something that happened a couple of years ago,I had mild chest pains I knew it was my gerd I told my mom and she proceeded to call my daughter after I told her not to,anyway my daughter said she couldnt take me to the hospital because she was going to a f party.A party If my kids got sick and I was able to and had a party to go to i would have said the hell with the party and be there for them but no.Sometimes I think I could drop dead for all they care.

 

[XmasCarol52]