monday in class I was staring into space & i was staring into space & i see the girl i liked looking at me while she was walking over .Then later I was staring at the wall & when i look over she was Leaning her Head Against her Hand While looking at me & smiling. Then on Wednesday i heard her saying in class ” i don’t know why he looks at me".
do you guys know what it means ?
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She is wondering why you are looking at her. She has obviously noticed it. Why don't you speak to her if you like her? Perhaps ask her out. Do you suffer from anxiety, are you anxious or shy to ask her?
yeah but now that i finish school i havent seen her ever since high school but the other day when i went out with my friends at the mall i turn around & saw a guy looking at me but then looked away. so i guess she was there & saw me & said something so maybe thats why he was looking at me. but idk i only saw a guy there & not her so i guess she hide behind him or something. & im guessing she didnt want me to see her so maybe thats why she hide behind him.
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Next time you see this girl . Go up to her and apologize for any misunderstanding. Tell her what you heard and explain to her that it is all a misunderstanding. Say ( I heard that you thought I was staring at you in class, I apologize if you thought that I was just staring into space. I had a lot on my mind that day and again ... I apologize.). If she's a decent women. .. she will gracefully except your apology and the 2 of you will move on . And if you guys eventually start dating... you can look back in this and laugh.
yeah but now that i finish school i havent seen her ever since high school but the other day when i went out with my friends at the mall i turn around & saw a guy looking at me but then looked away. so i guess she was there & saw me & said something so maybe thats why he was looking at me. but idk i only saw a guy there & not her so i guess she hide behind him or something. & im guessing she didnt want me to see her so maybe thats why she hide behind him.
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You know what the deal was and that's all that matters. This is her problem. .. not yours. Don't dwell on this. Move on with your life. It kin da sounds like she's the weird one here.
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Now you have moved on and not in her circle anymore, try to forget her. There are plenty more girls out there who would probably love to go out with you.
^My thoughts exactly, ladies. I couldn't have said it better!
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As you've been advised here already, it's best to move on. Don't obsess about finding someone else; the right person will come to you when you're focusing on yourself and doing well on your own.
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As you've been advised here already, it's best to move on. Don't obsess about finding someone else; the right person will come to you when you're focusing on yourself and doing well on your own.
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Yep. Your right . I swore that I was done with men. Then BOOM. here comes brian. This man is the love of my life. And I wasn't looking for someone at that time. They say that people only caring about looking for a partner has a (stink) of desperation . There might be something to that.
I thought I was done with men too and then I met Dave. I've never been in love like this before and that's only one of the many, many reasons I'm marrying him.
It's true that we meet the loves of our lives when we're not desperate. Desperation only leads to finding the wrong people. If someone isn't thinking clearly or logically and only wants a partner out of lust or because they're desperate, that's how bad situations can happen. I've been there before.
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After seeing the way my mother and fathers marriage was .. the cheating and the abuse on all of us. I just wasn't interested in marriage at all... . All of that stuff goes out the window when you meet that right person. I have learned what not to do. I have learned what no to do in my relationship. I won't put up with mental abuse like I had to as a child. The one thing that my childhood has done to me is even though I can't have any children. .. I don't know if I ever wanted any. I know that sounds bad but,.. that's the way it is.
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Throughout my life, I always seemed to be in one relationship or another. Now I've been single a couple of years and I think I really like it. It has normally been me that has walked out of the relationships anyway. Now it seems that men I meet can't understand how I can be single and 'go without' but that is not what life is all about.
I like my own time and peace and embrace my liberty. Except for where the dogs keep my grounded of course!
I like my own time and peace and embrace my liberty. Except for where the dogs keep my grounded of course!