Can someone please do me a favour and watch this video? DO NOT CLICK IF YOU HAVE CURRENT BAD HEALTH ANXIETY !!!!!!!!

[roadtocalmness]

TRIGGER WARNING. IF YOU HAVE CURRENT BAD HEALTH ANXIETY DO NOT WATCH! Video:

The part that flared up my anxiety was that she had an ultrasound, and they had mistaken a tumor for being a cyst... this shouldnt be possible when it comes to testicular cancer right??? If it was a tumor it would have been bulging out. My urologist discovered a small cyst on my epidedimytis. This couldnt possibly be mistaken for a cancerous tumor right? Im very scared right now. I should really go to another urologist for reascurrance. Please help me. If someone could please be so nice and watch the video and rationalize it that would be very much appreciated.

 

[Iugrad91]

Haven’t like 4 doctors all told you it’s not cancer? How many more do you need to reassure you? And why are you watching videos like this? You are on Google looking for more info when you’ve been cleared by multiple doctors. It’s time to seek help for your health anxiety.

 

[roadtocalmness]

Haven’t like 4 doctors all told you it’s not cancer? How many more do you need to reassure you? And why are you watching videos like this? You are on Google looking for more info when you’ve been cleared by multiple doctors. It’s time to seek help for your health anxiety.

i do go to therapy. Ive only undergone 2 tests. How do i know they havent missed anything, or that my cyst is not a cancerous tumor?

 

[Gooze17]

i do go to therapy. Ive only undergone 2 tests. How do i know they havent missed anything, or that my cyst is not a cancerous tumor?

Because it’s their job. What she’s talking about is rare enough to warrant a video being made about it specifically. You are actively finding reasons to doubt several different doctors.

 

[roadtocalmness]

Because it’s their job. What she’s talking about is rare enough to warrant a video being made about it specifically. You are actively finding reasons to doubt several different doctors.

Are you sure they would detect it on an ultrasound?

 

[Gooze17]

I don’t need to be. You’ve had several doctors whos entire job is to know. And they all agree there is 0 chance of cancer. So you know how rare a guarantee from a doctor is in this day and age? It’s a huge risk to even say that. The amount of confidence they have to have just to say it should tell you they missed nothing.

 

[roadtocalmness]

I don’t need to be. You’ve had several doctors whos entire job is to know. And they all agree there is 0 chance of cancer. So you know how rare a guarantee from a doctor is in this day and age? It’s a huge risk to even say that. The amount of confidence they have to have just to say it should tell you they missed nothing.

The urologist found a small cyst. I suppose its easy to tell the difference since he was so confident. I also think a tumor would have to be big to cause back pain. Very scared, dont know what to do.

 

[Gooze17]

I understand the fear man. And I understand grasping into that tiny sliver of doubt. But you’ve just got to find a way to accept what they’ve told you.

 

[roadtocalmness]

I understand the fear man. And I understand grasping into that tiny sliver of doubt. But you’ve just got to find a way to accept what they’ve told you.

Something in my brain tells me its not worth to accept anything but a 100% guarantee when my life is on the line.

 

[bin_tenn]

Something in my brain tells me its not worth to accept anything but a 100% guarantee when my life is on the line.

That must change in order to live a good life, because nothing in life is certain. The earth could be obliterated by a massive asteroid any minute, it's not impossible, but the chance is extremely low. You could walk out of your house right now and be struck by lightning out of nowhere - it can happen, but highly unlikely. That's the way of it.

 

[Iugrad91]

Nobody gets a 100% guarantee on anything in life. Binn is right, acceptance is the key to peace. Again I ask, how many doctors and how many tests would you need to be able to accept the results? Reassurance is a vicious cycle that can go on and on. You think I just need one more person to tell me I’m ok and I’ll accept it. Then you get that and the doubt creeps in again. When will you break the cycle? It’s the only way to healing. If you seek more reassurance, next time you will need to do the same. When you can start accepting you have health anxiety then when you have future spirals you will be able to use your past experience of acceptance to get thru it.

 

[Danny1001]

Listen,

That video could be one in a million situation. And your focused on the one in a million. So if you believe that you could be lucky enough to hit one in 1 million go out and buy a lottery ticket and let me know when you win.

there is nothing wrong with you , you don’t have it . I will be willing to bet 1 million on that , I would not bet a million on her story

Get busy


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[Jonathan123]

Haven’t like 4 doctors all told you it’s not cancer? How many more do you need to reassure you? And why are you watching videos like this? You are on Google looking for more info when you’ve been cleared by multiple doctors. It’s time to seek help for your health anxiety.

Absolutely!! I couldn't agree more. Googling and watching health programmes are a big NO, NO's in anxiety. Especially HA. For goodness sake, our imaginations are enough without watching such things. I only came to the point where someone said 'you must fight this' then I switched it off. That too is a big NO,NO!! Fighting, struggling with 'IT' is about the worse thing to do. Calm acceptance is the only real answer. Difficult? Of course it is, and it takes time. But with time and patience eventually pays off. If you talk to people who have had physical illnesses they will readily give you an 'organ recital', but when it comes to anxiety, oh no!! They usually change the subject or tell you to fight 'IT'.

 

[Cuchculan]

Stick to porn videos and masturbation.

 

[kammie72]

Definitely not watching that video! But totally understand the “what if’s.” I live close to an airport a few months ago starting worrying about a plane crashing into my house. It can go on and on. There are no guarantees in life but you’ve gotten multiple assurances on this particular thing. Please try to find some peace. I know what it’s like. I recently got some assurances and although I have to checked again in a few months, when I know the “what if’s” will start again, I’m going to feel peace today!