My partners birthday is dividing opinion. A year ago I was going to get a footballer for my stag night but bailed last minute. Now I want for a birthday and it’s dividing opinion. I have some live singers on and it was on my bucket list to meet a ex footballer . Should I go ahead?
Birthday anxiety
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Cuchculan
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So this is her birthday that you want to get the footballer for? Not your own. Hence it is dividing opinion. It is her birthday. Maybe she does not want a footballer for her birthday. No reason why you should get something for yourself on your partner's birthday. Wait for your own birthday and then do it.
Well when I say dividing opinion some in my family think I’m showing off. They talked me out of getting a footballer for my own stag night last year. Doesn’t matter when I do it I worry they will moan?
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If you want a footballer, get one come your own birthday. It is something you have always wanted. I doubt they come cheap. But mention early to your partner. Way before your birthday. To let her know it is the only thing you want. I am sure it will happen. Families like to moan at times. If a footballer shows up at your birthday, I am sure they will like it too. To see your happy.
Booked the same function room for my stag night last summer and people said the same moaned. I have no doubt if i book it for myself they will moan too.
The agent was only gonna have the guy come for 30 mins and I moaned so he went quiet not ideal? He sent a price list for others in some robotic response.
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Am I over reacting worrying if I should put this on social media? I worry about big birthdays and don’t like people seeing my age or my partners? Could I just brand it as as a normal night out as there is no cake or anything?