A question about hate

[_Lukas]

I agree with all the others, be careful with her, she could end up turning on you again.
Keep us updated and I hope things get better soon!

 

[Concernedgal]

I have an update about this situation and I need your help. This girl asked if she could be my freind now. But, i'm very concerned about this. I's she setting me up for the kill or should I give this girl a chance? It's kind of damned if u do and damned if I don't situation. Help. What would you do?

 

[_Lukas]

Hmm, this sounds like a Catch-22 to me... Damned if you do and damned if you don't is right.
If I were in your situation, I would say something like "I like to get to know people a little better before I make friends with them." That way you're not directly telling her you don't want to be her friend, but you're not jumping headfirst into the fire either.

 

[Concernedgal]

This girl is a sous chef like I am. When we were don't prepping food... u was taking a sanitizing solution to clean the prep table and she asked me if I hated her and I said "no". And she asked if there was any posability that we could be friends and I just stood there shocked I think because I didn't say anything...didn't know what to say. I was taken a back.

 

[Concernedgal]

I accepted her freindship. ... with caution

 

[Rinka]

This girl is a sous chef like I am. When we were don't prepping food... u was taking a sanitizing solution to clean the prep table and she asked me if I hated her and I said "no". And she asked if there was any posability that we could be friends and I just stood there shocked I think because I didn't say anything...didn't know what to say. I was taken a back.

Yes best thinks is to stay cautious. You never know she might turn on you.

 

[_Lukas]

My advice: tread carefully.
Who knows, she might end up being an awesome friend, but it's best to stay wary. Like Rinka said, she could turn on you at any opportunity. Always best to proceed with caution when you're dealing with someone who has mistreated you in the past. I hope things turn out for the better though!

 

[Concernedgal]

Thank you. I hope so too