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I was in a relationship like that, obviously things didn't end well. If you're dating someone and that person doesn't understand and support you completely, it's going to be a waste of time in the end. You both are supposedly going to be together for the rest of your lives, you ought to learn...

PTSD is pretty scary, I personally never suffered from it but a couple of my friends still do. They have flashbacks from their unfortunate memories, sometimes they go no-contact for days and I get really worried. High stress is the cause of many ilnesses, my mother worked in a toxic environment...

With age I think stuff like this dims down, I'm in my mid-twenties and whenever I feel attracted to someone I'm not as clumsy as I used to be when I was a teenager. Of course, the awkwardness is still there and I have a hard time speaking sometimes, but once you click with that person things...

As a relatively new driver I'm still anxious behind the wheel, there are still many scenarios I haven't faced and other drivers scare me. I've had my license for a few months now and I haven't experienced that many bad incidents, although I messed up a couple of times on the road I learned my...

I don't really mind crowds of people if they're not obnoxious, I can see why it would be annoying for you due to health problems. I'm still at a young-ish age so going out with friends in crowded locations isn't that much of an impediment, in fact I enjoy the "coziness" groups of people bring...

A while ago I decided to leave my best friends due to various reasons (depression, we weren't on the same wavelength anymore and so on), whenever I'm in the neighborhood they live in I'm very alert in case I would get in contact with them. I don't really see them as enemies but I'm just trying...

It can definitely happen, music influences you both ways sometimes and for a certain person it can be the dealbreaker. Listening to depressing songs when you're in a miserable state of mind and constantly reminding yourself of how bad your life is can lead to suicide in the worst case scenario...

Wow.. I wonder if I could get the opportunity to take part in such a course. Where do you currently reside? I live in Romania so chances are slim but it doesn't hurt to try, direct therapy hasn't really worked for me but maybe with a little bit of introduction I could muster up the courage to...

My dogs help by simply giving me tasks to do. Whether I feel like it or not they need attention and care in order to survive, they taught me to be disciplined in a way. Having a pet also reduces loneliness, my dogs are my best friends when my SO is not home, they feel like they're part of the...

I have memory losses in terms of bad experiences from my depression, simply because my mind chooses to erase the bad things that have happened to me over the years. In a way it's an useful tool since I don't have to deal with bad, past memories but it can also be frustrating when you're trying...

I was drunk once and slept for 16 hours, which was pretty interesting since I was confused for a whole day. I also once slept for a full day after being sleep deprived for 3, I had many projects going on and couldn't get sleep at all, only a couple of really short naps. Depression can definitely...

If he was afraid of a fist fight it means he's all talk and nothing else, I wouldn't be too worried about him. Let your neighbor talk as much as he wants, he'll probably get bored after a while. Focus on energy on doing something greater than talking crap and holding a grudge to the person next...

It's more likely you'll get in a car accident rather than a plane crash (and planes are extremely safe, weren't only 12 plane accidents in 2015?) so I'd say you have really high chances of living, although if your plane does indeed crash the chances of living are pretty low, so you're right to...

Those are superstitions and while I don't try to belittle anyone that believes in them I think they're pretty silly. When I was a kid my mother believed in many traditional superstitions here in Romania, she didn't let me whistle inside the house because she thought that would bring unwanted...

I have been invited to a family Christmas party which I'm pretty reluctant to go to. Not because I'm not on good terms with my family or anything, but I'd much rather spend the Christmas night with my SO sharing gifts and cuddling together. I think I'll have to deny the invitation, my girlfriend...

In my opinion Deja Vu happens when our subconcious mind travels in the future. It sounds really sketchy, I know, but it's also one of the logical explanations since you can literally dream about your future. I've had Deja-Vus with people that I'd never met, that's incredibly scary. I'd love to...

Sometimes I lose my temper even when I can't influence things. For example, my internet has been really wonky for the past couple of weeks and I haven't been able to focus on my work 100% which has made me really irritated. Today I finally snapped and nearly broke my router, it can happen to...

Unless the person knocking at my door is visibly injured and in need of immediate help I will definitely open up and try my best to do something, but otherwise I would probably be reluctant to say anything. I wouldn't help someone that is randomly knocking at my door and asking for gas for...

I don't follow politics at all, I find the subject boring and after all it's pointless to argue about them since you can't influence anyone. As long as the people leading my country aren't limiting myself and cutting off opportunities I don't care who's our leader. I tend to steer away from the...

I'm definitely a loner, I don't go out much on weekends except when there's something special going on. Social media surely stresses me out, but you have to understand that people are different and their lives aren't similar to yours. Just because you choose to relax by yourself doesn't mean you...