I’m one of the only people I know who believes in god. I feel so outcasted, am I actually alone ?

Twinkie Moon · Jun 19, 2018

Oh, no! You're not alone when it comes to that. I'm actually in the same boat as you, except the opposite. I'm a closeted atheist in a family and society of Catholics. I've heard stuff like "atheists are completely wrong, they don't even know where they came from!" and atheists are devil worshippers, etc.

I just try to ignore their remarks because I know I'm not worshipping the devil and I know this is what I believe in.

If it makes you feel better, Jesus was also in a society where believing in (one) God was looked severely down upon, yet he persevered in peace.

Just don't give in and continue to believe in what you want, even if it goes against other people's. As long as you're not hurting anyone, they should see you're not causing anything. It's actually those who bully others who are doing the harm.

janemariesayed · Jun 20, 2018

Miles M LaViolette said:
So I’m a Christian in a family of atheists that get more seditious each political event. They Starting to see me as what’s wrong with this world and say stuff like “religion is the burden of society and I have to just put up with it. The situation is not much different at my school. I’ve gotten really upset at the world because of this and I even considered extremism at one point (which is dum cuz extremism is against my religion) but am I really alone in this? Yes, I am able to get through this because i have prayed for the ability to but support is still necessary cuz i just need to talk to someone every now and again. But the scary thing is that extremism seems very tempting.

I know where you're coming from exactly! I was always religious when I was growing up yet no one around me was at all. As a result family and friends thought I was cuckoo.

Don't let it get to you. I know it is depressing, but you must just carry right on along your spiritual journey and enjoy it. The thing to do is not to mention it to those close to you who you know are not religious. Don't throw your pearls to the pigs, so to speak.

It is your make up to have a religion. Ignore those who jibe you. They are not worth it.

janemariesayed · Jun 21, 2018

Miles M LaViolette said:
I’m also getting a bunch of pressure from pop culture that drives me crazy. Everyone at school (I know this sounds crazy) actually literally thinks that I am being a bad immoral person for waiting until marriage to have sex while I feel they are being bad for not waiting. And then all of a sudden I’m being pressured and shamed even more now that there’s an “anti-slut shaming” movement which drives me crazy. I also have a hard time dealing with the fact that I’m staying single for life all because all girls now days hate religion or just want sex, usually both. So yeah, I’m denied a love life, shamed for my faith, and am genuinely alone as a Christian. At this point it REALLY seems like extremism is a justified option.

What on earth is the world coming to? You will not be a life time without a relationship. Focus on your education and getting your career off to a good start. Then when you are ready, you can join a church or a Christian dating site where you will meet like-minded people. Your chastity will be appreciated then. Don't worry about what your peers say and do. Ignore them. Life moves on and you won't be with them forever.

You are a Christian, so you are never alone..... Jesus is with you.

Poppy_recreation · Jul 6, 2018

Don't let those people get in the way of your religion, you are entitled to believe in whatever you want. Just keep praying and remain faithful, try not to let others tell you that you're wrong or it's stupid. It matters to you, so that is all that matters.

mayabee · Jul 7, 2018

Miles M LaViolette said:
So I’m a Christian in a family of atheists that get more seditious each political event. They Starting to see me as what’s wrong with this world and say stuff like “religion is the burden of society and I have to just put up with it. The situation is not much different at my school. I’ve gotten really upset at the world because of this and I even considered extremism at one point (which is dum cuz extremism is against my religion) but am I really alone in this? Yes, I am able to get through this because i have prayed for the ability to but support is still necessary cuz i just need to talk to someone every now and again. But the scary thing is that extremism seems very tempting.

You’re not alone! It’s the complete opposite for me! Everyone I know is dedicated to their faith, but I’m not so sure. They are so many people out there who believe in what you do, you just gotta find them!

Jerlene · Jul 8, 2018

Just don't let it bother you. There are a lot of people out there that are not going to share the same beliefs as you. There's nothing you can do about that except ignore it. It's very frustrating for me to be dating someone who does not believe in God. What we do is never bring up religion and if we do we hear each other out and don't take anything personal. Everyone is entitled to their opinion.

mayabee · Jul 15, 2018

Miles M LaViolette said:
im still alone because your an athiest just like everyone else

Actually I’m a practicing Greek Orthodox Christian and just came back from Bible camp. I’m not an atheist, I just doubt my faith sometimes. You’re not alone.

darkPassenger · Jul 16, 2018

Miles M LaViolette said:
So I’m a Christian in a family of atheists that get more seditious each political event. They Starting to see me as what’s wrong with this world and say stuff like “religion is the burden of society and I have to just put up with it. The situation is not much different at my school. I’ve gotten really upset at the world because of this and I even considered extremism at one point (which is dum cuz extremism is against my religion) but am I really alone in this? Yes, I am able to get through this because i have prayed for the ability to but support is still necessary cuz i just need to talk to someone every now and again. But the scary thing is that extremism seems very tempting.

Go to Church! I am married to an atheist and religion is the one thing we get really mad at each other about. I believe in freedom of religion and think that he can't see why it's important because he doesn't know the feeling of having a higher power or whatever you want to call it. Its like trying to explain to someone that there is another dimension that they can't see but you just have to accept it's there. Some times what he says makes me feel like he thinks I am stupid because god is like the easter bunny or something and its ridiculous that anyone believes in any kind of god. He thinks that religion is evil and that it is ruining society. I go to church maybe 4-5 times a year with my mom and I always feel so good when I go. What is extremism?

brtmdo · Aug 14, 2018

Miles M LaViolette said:
So I’m a Christian in a family of atheists that get more seditious each political event. They Starting to see me as what’s wrong with this world and say stuff like “religion is the burden of society and I have to just put up with it. The situation is not much different at my school. I’ve gotten really upset at the world because of this and I even considered extremism at one point (which is dum cuz extremism is against my religion) but am I really alone in this? Yes, I am able to get through this because i have prayed for the ability to but support is still necessary cuz i just need to talk to someone every now and again. But the scary thing is that extremism seems very tempting.

the way i see it, it's a blessing to have a relationship with God and you are never "the only one “ because God is always at your side. as far as extremism is concerned even a little knowledge of God's word would convince you that he forbids it.

jalex · Oct 2, 2019

You are never alone. Many of us are Christians and support you. Stand on your faith and it will see you through.

Cuchculan · Oct 2, 2019

I believe in God. But the Catholic way does differ a bit from your own way. Our church would be a bit different. I don't see myself as the problem. I see myself as not wanting to harm anybody. Is other religions, who have a few crazy people mixed in with the people who believe just as we do, who cause the trouble in the world. Radical people. They can read any book and get a different meaning out of it. If the book says to love, they will see that as meaning to love other radicalised people like themselves and hate all others. They twist the words of their holy book. To come up with the rubbish the scream at people. Even my own bible is not a history book. It is there to guide those who want to be guided. Some simply take it further than others.

Wandering123 · Oct 3, 2019

I know you are finding this all frustrating. I think as long as your faith is strong then there is nothing to be bothered about. Every one has their own opinions and yes, society has an obsession with sex. But what matters is how you live your life and what is comfortable with you. Maybe surround yourself with more like minded people. I'm am atheist in a Christian family and I just ignore them. They have their right to believe whatever they want as do I.

bin_tenn · Oct 3, 2019

You're not alone at all, as you can see. I'm an atheist myself, with a mostly Christian family. I sort of get your situation from the other side of the fence. Many of my extended family members seem to steer clear of me ever since I decided on atheism as opposed to their beliefs several years ago. I honestly don't understand why, as I never have (and never will) criticize them for their faith.

I know just as many Christians who have sh*tty personalities as I know atheists with the same problem. I just ignore it. I believe in caring about people, not judging anyone, etc. Whether you're a believer or disbeliever, you're going to receive unnecessary criticism. So again, you're not alone. Both fellow Christians and atheists who face the same problem.

I hope you can find your way through this mess. Hang in there. You will be fine.

healthfreak · Oct 18, 2019

You are not alone! If one believes too strongly because one sees proof of God's existence everywhere one turns, you are bound to become like an outcast anywhere you go.

ladybj · Oct 19, 2019

Miles M LaViolette said:
So I’m a Christian in a family of atheists that get more seditious each political event. They Starting to see me as what’s wrong with this world and say stuff like “religion is the burden of society and I have to just put up with it. The situation is not much different at my school. I’ve gotten really upset at the world because of this and I even considered extremism at one point (which is dum cuz extremism is against my religion) but am I really alone in this? Yes, I am able to get through this because i have prayed for the ability to but support is still necessary cuz i just need to talk to someone every now and again. But the scary thing is that extremism seems very tempting.

Please don't change the way you are to please others....you will be changing every other month or so because people change. Be your true self. Who knows, maybe one day some of your family members may become Christian and if not, that is there choice and being a Christian is your choice. Continue to pray and be your true self.

darkPassenger said:
Go to Church! I am married to an atheist and religion is the one thing we get really mad at each other about. I believe in freedom of religion and think that he can't see why it's important because he doesn't know the feeling of having a higher power or whatever you want to call it. Its like trying to explain to someone that there is another dimension that they can't see but you just have to accept it's there. Some times what he says makes me feel like he thinks I am stupid because god is like the easter bunny or something and its ridiculous that anyone believes in any kind of god. He thinks that religion is evil and that it is ruining society. I go to church maybe 4-5 times a year with my mom and I always feel so good when I go. What is extremism?

Were you aware that he was an atheist when you married him? That will definitely cause a division in your marriage.

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