I think this is an emergency! :(

_Lukas said:

Thanks for the reassurance and kind words, ladies. Last night was really rough.

Like I said, this isn't new, my parents have been trying to break us up for years. I just thought that maybe they would stop when they realized we were getting married and there was nothing they could do about it. I was wrong, sadly.

My dad in particular can be really abusive so I'm worried about what he might do to Dave. When I was a kid, my dad hit me with a belt all the time and he used to put soap in my mouth when I talked back to him. I would get the belt for refusing to go to church or getting bad marks in school. I never wanted to go to church and my dad would literally drag me out of bed and throw me in the car and force me to go. Sometimes he would twist my arms and legs too if I didn't want to go.
My dad is a very mean old man. He's a pretty good example of an old-school, religious, conservative Polish person. He's extremely strict and doesn't like to have fun. He's mean to literally everyone, including my mom.
When I told my parents I was gay, they tried to put me in conversion therapy and they wouldn't let me date. My mom said I had "gender dysphoria," which isn't true at all, I was born male and identify as a cisgender male, I just happen to be a man who likes men.
My parents have always been really awful to me. When I was in high school, I was the captain of the mens' varsity soccer team. My parents never came to any of my games and they were never proud of me or anything, but they made a HUGE deal out of my brother playing basketball and they went to all of his games, even the away ones. He wasn't even good at basketball!
When I was going to college, I found out about my medical condition and my doctor told me I couldn't play competitive soccer anymore. I was so devastated and depressed. My parents didn't give a **** at all. They never let me come home when I was in college and they kind of just left me there and hardly ever called me. I was really sick and in a wheelchair for a while and they never even visited me or sent me flowers or anything! They visited me once when I was in the hospital and it was only to pay my medical bills, they didn't care how I was doing or anything. Then they had the audacity to complain about paying my medical bills and my dad said "I don't want to pay for his funeral. We can just put him in a box."
I know for a fact that if I had died, my parents wouldn't have cared at all and would have just gone about their daily lives and never thought about me again. My parents are so awful

My parents have always been really mean to Dave. The first thing my mom ever said about him was "Oh mother of God, he is so ugly."
He's not ugly at all. He's actually incredibly handsome. What my mom doesn't like about him is that he's very effeminate and he wears makeup and he's a little overweight. My mom has a big issue with overweight people for some reason. My parents have been picking on Dave about his weight for as long as they've known him. They're also really annoyed that he doesn't try to diet or go to the gym or anything. I don't think he gives a **** about losing weight because he looks perfect the way he is.
One time my dad told Dave that if he "messed up our family," he would pull out his shotgun on him. Dave was so terrified of my dad after that and I think he still is. I really don't think my dad would shoot him but I can't be totally sure.

So yeah, I just needed to vent about my parents because they're horrible.

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