I want to say I finally found therapy that I was looking for. I think it really work for my ocd but at this point I feel it won’t matter. I feel like I’ve had this best years of life taken away from me. I’m gonna be 35 this year I feel lost and depressed. I know the thing I’ve always wanted was to love to have a guy love me o know though reality it ain’t gonna happen why keep pretending it is. I’ve read how much guys don’t want women over 30. I even read all the things guys are attacked too in a woman and I have none of those. It all seems age based and I’m just tired of it all. When i was young guys didn’t want me then either now I’m not gonna be good enough cause of my age. I had many things i wanted to do and life I had in my mind. I look same too as I did younger and I finally like the way I look but still my age is my age and guys ain’t gonna want me. I’m just never what guys want i shouldn’t need to be young to be loved. I know having a guy is not most important thing but it’s what I always wanted and I cannot make myself not want a guy now getting older I want a relationship I’ve seen everyone around me have a relationship while I have never not even any contact from a guy and it’s really sad. I feel sad even though I’m finally gonna get help for what made me miss out on years but now I feel like it don’t matter. I really need advice someone to talk to since no one around me understands
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bin_tenn
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What 30-something guy wouldn't want a 30-something woman? That's absurd. IMO age isn't a huge deal, so long as both are legal age and the gap isn't massive (but if it's a large gap and they're both adults, ultimately not my problem, that's just my opinion). I say any legitimate guy (or woman) in their 30s would want someone the same age or maybe a bit older. When I was in my late 20s I was talking to a woman who was barely into her 20s. I knew rather quickly that was a mistake, because she simply wasn't mature enough yet. We had fun, but that's all she cared about. She didn't care about career, and the finer things in life. So I put an end to it.
I know that doesn't answer everything, but I wanted to point that out specifically.
I know that doesn't answer everything, but I wanted to point that out specifically.
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That's very far from the truth. I'm sure that many men would love to find a sweet woman like you. Just be careful and don't rush into a relationship with the first guy that you end up going on a date with unless you truly think he is the one that you want to be with. Give it sometime you will find love.
