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It has always made me feel that because I was in a children's home when I was a tot, that I would end up in an old people's home when I'm an old biddy. It doesn't bother me so much because I know I will get looked after. All I can do is hope that the careworkers treat me right. I've had it with not being treated right and not being able to speak up because no one believes me.

That woman was not a true friend to you. She had the cheek to blame you for her illness. I hope she gets therapy and realises that it was not you that harmed her. The best thing to do is ignore someone like that.
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Hi honey well you won't ever have to worry about me because I will always believe you and in you.Around here in the United States the elderly get treated so bad in the nursing homes they are having more and more home care now.I had seen and heard of the abuse that happens to the elderly and it just isnt right.THey get stepped on so easily/Oh do not worry I dumped that b--ch a long time ago i dont need her crap.I was only saying how I feel besides she has anxieties and she would tell me things and I never looked at it like complaining.You what is so weird the exact same day I dump her this cop shows up at my door asking me strange questions like it was reported there was a stolen credit card here she even tried to get into my apt i immediately stuck my foot out so she couldnt come inside it wasnt until later I realized she was a fake because she never identified herself everytime I asked a question she would never answer me I suppect it might have been her or a friend of hers just trying to scare me here i was all undressed standing there with just a friggen underwear on and a top she never apoloogized for botheing me and i also thought that it was kind of odd that a cop would come to someones apt saying a credit card wsas stolen they get this one just before she left she told me the address she was lookng for it wAS not this addy oh bs.If she was a real cop she wouldnt have bothered me for a stupid card or know my addy but i didnt think of it until later.I told me son and others they said she wasnt a real cop.
 
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Hi honey well you won't ever have to worry about me because I will always believe you and in you.Around here in the United States the elderly get treated so bad in the nursing homes they are having more and more home care now.I had seen and heard of the abuse that happens to the elderly and it just isnt right.THey get stepped on so easily/Oh do not worry I dumped that b--ch a long time ago i dont need her crap.I was only saying how I feel besides she has anxieties and she would tell me things and I never looked at it like complaining.You what is so weird the exact same day I dump her this cop shows up at my door asking me strange questions like it was reported there was a stolen credit card here she even tried to get into my apt i immediately stuck my foot out so she couldnt come inside it wasnt until later I realized she was a fake because she never identified herself everytime I asked a question she would never answer me I suppect it might have been her or a friend of hers just trying to scare me here i was all undressed standing there with just a friggen underwear on and a top she never apoloogized for botheing me and i also thought that it was kind of odd that a cop would come to someones apt saying a credit card wsas stolen they get this one just before she left she told me the address she was lookng for it wAS not this addy oh bs.If she was a real cop she wouldnt have bothered me for a stupid card or know my addy but i didnt think of it until later.I told me son and others they said she wasnt a real cop.
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Can't you get done for impersonating a police officer? I'm sure it is the way in the UK. Unless it is for a party or stripogram or something we are not allowed to pretend to be police officers. You are right, you are well away from her.

The previous tenant who lived in my house had a visitor from a man who said he was from the court. Just knocked on my door and demanded money that was owed. I told him I wasn't that person he was looking for and he didn't believe me. He told me that I had to show him my ID there and then or he would bring the police. I freaked out and a thought came to me. How is it correct that any person from the authorities can go up to any door, knock on it and demand to see the ID. I told him I didn't know what my rights were legally about being forced to show my ID at the doorstep to a complete stranger and that I would have to see a lawyer first. Then it dawned on me, and I told him so, that I had lived in that house for the last two years and that I am registered on the electoral register and the council know I am living there. I shouted at him to go and check the electoral register if he wanted my name and that if he was really from the court that he would have done that already. Then I screamed at him that I have poor mental health and to never come back. He never did come back either.

I did tell the previous tenant about his visit, but I never told that man where they live now, or even that I know them. I was under the crisis team at that time and I told him his threats were very dangerous for me. I told him if he comes back then I will take him to court for harassing me and trying to tip me over the edge by scaremongering me. Oh, the words just flew out of me, mixed with quite a bit of spittal which I can't help doing when I am irate. :drowning:

At least he went away nicely washed ha ha!
 
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Can't you get done for impersonating a police officer? I'm sure it is the way in the UK. Unless it is for a party or stripogram or something we are not allowed to pretend to be police officers. You are right, you are well away from her.

The previous tenant who lived in my house had a visitor from a man who said he was from the court. Just knocked on my door and demanded money that was owed. I told him I wasn't that person he was looking for and he didn't believe me. He told me that I had to show him my ID there and then or he would bring the police. I freaked out and a thought came to me. How is it correct that any person from the authorities can go up to any door, knock on it and demand to see the ID. I told him I didn't know what my rights were legally about being forced to show my ID at the doorstep to a complete stranger and that I would have to see a lawyer first. Then it dawned on me, and I told him so, that I had lived in that house for the last two years and that I am registered on the electoral register and the council know I am living there. I shouted at him to go and check the electoral register if he wanted my name and that if he was really from the court that he would have done that already. Then I screamed at him that I have poor mental health and to never come back. He never did come back either.

I did tell the previous tenant about his visit, but I never told that man where they live now, or even that I know them. I was under the crisis team at that time and I told him his threats were very dangerous for me. I told him if he comes back then I will take him to court for harassing me and trying to tip me over the edge by scaremongering me. Oh, the words just flew out of me, mixed with quite a bit of spittal which I can't help doing when I am irate. :drowning:

At least he went away nicely washed ha ha!
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Hi u can get into a whole lot of trouble for impersonating a cop.I wish I have thought of that before,welly my friend came to she was not feeling well she kind of was quick with me today even shook her head as if I am crazy.Well she said she had a lot on her mind and i told her if she wants to talk about it I am here she said what do mean u know anything how was I suppose to know that/In any case when someone is in a bad mood and takes it out on me I always take it personally.I didnt even dare asks she was so moody today ?Ugh
 
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Hi u can get into a whole lot of trouble for impersonating a cop.I wish I have thought of that before,welly my friend came to she was not feeling well she kind of was quick with me today even shook her head as if I am crazy.Well she said she had a lot on her mind and i told her if she wants to talk about it I am here she said what do mean u know anything how was I suppose to know that/In any case when someone is in a bad mood and takes it out on me I always take it personally.I didnt even dare asks she was so moody today ?Ugh
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Try not to take things personally. I used to be like that but I am a lot better now. Tell yourself that we are not unique. Everyone on the planet has issues of something or another. Let peoples moods go over your head. Take care of No.1. If they want to be in a mood, so be it and go off and do something that makes you happy. The key is to try to not think about it.
 
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Try not to take things personally. I used to be like that but I am a lot better now. Tell yourself that we are not unique. Everyone on the planet has issues of something or another. Let peoples moods go over your head. Take care of No.1. If they want to be in a mood, so be it and go off and do something that makes you happy. The key is to try to not think about it.
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I always been very sensitive and insecure since I was a kid.I tried to tell her why I asked her if she needed to vent but instead i just froze and told her i am sensitive and insecure,some people I cannot stand up to and when she said that she looked me straight in the eye and smirked i didt dare tell her a thing about how i really felt.I was only trying to help and be a good friend.She is a great friend but when she get into one of her moods watch out.
 
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I always been very sensitive and insecure since I was a kid.I tried to tell her why I asked her if she needed to vent but instead i just froze and told her i am sensitive and insecure,some people I cannot stand up to and when she said that she looked me straight in the eye and smirked i didt dare tell her a thing about how i really felt.I was only trying to help and be a good friend.She is a great friend but when she get into one of her moods watch out.
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At least you know to be careful around her. I sometimes think that trust is knowing the good the bad and the ugly about someone.
 
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