Actually, for us pagans, it's one of the biggest holidays, if not the biggest. Many of us like collecting the cute "witch" stuff out there. I found a black cauldron-shaped door hanger and some wooden letters, and I made a sign for my door that says "The Witch Is In" to put out when I'm at home. Some of us do costumes and trick or treat with our kids, but for many of us, it's a time to get together with other pagans, reflect on the lessons we have learned (because that day marks the end of the year), and remember our loved ones who have passed on. There are no curses or anything nasty. It's one of the more solemn and serious holidays, and there are often tears when we put out food or gifts for those who are no longer with us. Many of us also go to Halloween parties, take the kids out trick-or-treating, dress up, or pass out candy at home (my personal favorite, because then I get the leftover stuff!).
It's weird seeing someone else who's pagan online, I didn't even mention it in my comment. Unfortunately I don't have a group to be with, as my city is mainly Christian (I'm within walking distance of several churches), and my best friend, who is also pagan, moved across the state. I'm curious, what do you do for the winter solstice, if it's not too personal?
