So for awhile things have been fight at home, to me it is all stuff that can be fixed. We started counseling but had 2 sessions and my husband said he was going to move out. He told me he wanted to work on it he just wanted to be separated. Last weekend I found out a woman moved in with him. We have children they were supposed to go over but I refused to let them because this is a hard enough time for them as it is. He swears she will not be around when they are there. He refuses to let me come to the apartment. He swears that they are platonic friends, and he refuses to even tell me her name. So I looked at his past phone records and found her name out. I feel like I need to call her. I am a very stable person and I would not be calling to yell at her or belittle her I simply want the truth. What is going on, should I do this?