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Concernedgal

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YoUr mother is definitely a piece of work. Tell her straight up. "If you want a relationship with me, you need to stop talking about wanting to die. She's not the only one with problems in this life. She seems to be self absorbed.
 
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If that isn't bad enough she said to me today I want u to go out places but you won't go.I didn't even dignify that with an answer ,she just doesn't get my agoraphobia not at all.I even got mad once at her and hung up because i was talking about something and she had the nerve to say to me I don't want to hear about it yes I told her the only time you ever want to hear anything is when it is about you she told me that isn't true I got so mad I hung up she and i didn't speak for a whole week ,i waited for her to call back let her feel guilty for a chance. Heaven knows she had laid a lot of them on me.She even pulled that crap with me a week ago when the alarms went off she said she didn't want to hear about it and she doesn't care either oh really she would have cared if something had happened to me ,but then again I wonder.....
 
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oh ya she started with i wish god would take me again and she asks me why he wont take her,u know what i say now oh well when she says that,even other family members are getting tired of her saying that I know my son is sick of it. He said you try staying over her house every Sunday for five hours.I wanted to asks him why he does go there but I knew I better shut up.
 
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You can call me Carol if you want,I was actually born on Christmas day so now u can say you know the real Christmas Carol.NOw I do hope that you have a great Easter and may God be with you.Remember you are EGGSTRA special to me andI am so glad we met.
 
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Carol. Life is too short. Make up and try to establish a relationship while you still can. If you dont... you will regret it. These things are so small now.. Believe me. . I k ow. I'm about to lose someone that I truly love and I hadn't spoken to her in 10 years. The drug abuse finally caught up with her and now all I wish for is that I had more time with her. Your mom isn't perfect and she might even piss you off alot but, I think it's time you both bury the hatchet. I wish you the best of luck carol. And happy easter.
 
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XmasCarol52 said:
You can call me Carol if you want,I was actually born on Christmas day so now u can say you know the real Christmas Carol.NOw I do hope that you have a great Easter and may God be with you.Remember you are EGGSTRA special to me andI am so glad we met.
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God bless you, Carol. I did think that you were perhaps born at Christmas. In 1952 right? I absolutely love and appreciate that I found this forum. I feel as though I have made some real friends here. Even though we may never meet. Or even know what we look like. Being able to find genuine people and have trust. To be able to talk freely about our innermost feelings and the support we give each other means so much to me.
 
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Concernedgal said:
Carol. Life is too short. Make up and try to establish a relationship while you still can. If you dont... you will regret it. These things are so small now.. Believe me. . I k ow. I'm about to lose someone that I truly love and I hadn't spoken to her in 10 years. The drug abuse finally caught up with her and now all I wish for is that I had more time with her. Your mom isn't perfect and she might even piss you off alot but, I think it's time you both bury the hatchet. I wish you the best of luck carol. And happy easter.
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You know when she brings up death I just say oh well she keeps asking me why God wont take her i just told her he isnt ready for her yet.If she would stop being so dominating things would be okay,but when she has to cop and attitude just because I dont agree with her on something it makes me mad.She is lucky that I call her everyday sometimes even twice.I do feel sorry for her believe me i know how i5 feels to lose your husband,mine will be gone 13 years this july 29 and my dad died last year on july 30.Like the day before she had every chance to go and sit outside with her neighbor which by the way is a lovely person but she refused then she complains to me nobody comes to see her.
 
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God bless you, Carol. I did think that you were perhaps born at Christmas. In 1952 right? I absolutely love and appreciate that I found this forum. I feel as though I have made some real friends here. Even though we may never meet. Or even know what we look like. Being able to find genuine people and have trust. To be able to talk freely about our innermost feelings and the support we give each other means so much to me.
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Yup 1952 is when i was born.I love this forum,the people here are so nice ,it is so nice to be able to talk to someone about my mental illness,i love you all.carol
 
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